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Friday in the office

2012-01-27T07:15:00.000-08:00


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Office Friday afternoon somewhere in East Europe. Can there be a better time to contemplate the results of the past week and prepare herself for the bonus?

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The understanding boss will warm girl's bottom up with a soft leather paddle.


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The cane is applied only over warm and rosy behind. It stings a lot and I can't sometimes to do nothing with my yealps and squels. But it's fair to get what I've deserved.


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That's all. Just few minutes in the corner of the boss's office (hopefully no one will pay a visit to my boss this late Friday afternoon) and I am free.

Who else can boast of working at such strict but wonderful boss?

Sunday afternoon

2012-01-23T00:07:00.000-08:00

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An disciplinary spanking on Friday night or Saturday morning is an obligatory while the rest of the weekend is for sensual soft treatment. It's a tradition. I've been spanked this way by mom years ago.


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The time after the five o'clock tea is for me a moment of romantic sensual meeting with the best friend (or friends).


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I expect to get the sensual soft (or moderate or even hard) but sensual spanking as a proving of love and friendship.


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I express my love and devotion the way I can do the best.
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Coming home

2012-01-08T12:02:00.000-08:00

It happens again and again. I am spanked the same day I come to parents' home. "How can you live alone in a such big city and how can't you find someone to spank you?" - mommy is wondering every time before ordering me to bend over the table. I'm sure to get hairbrush slaps this time too just after hugs and kisses. Worse luck! "Go into the corner," - mom says, - "and kneel down!" Something new, really. I don't understand what's going on but I do what I'm said. I feel her fingers on my waist unzipping my skirt and pulling it together with my panties down.

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"I know you need some spanking frequently," - she says, - "but today is maybe the last time I spank you. Tomorrow is January 8^th, your 20^th birthday, so you will decide yourself about your spanking. Well, suffice to talk, come here."

She spanks me with a daddy's belt this time and I start to cry loudly shortly. She sends me to the corner again but with the sore bottom this time.

I have to make a resolve regarding my future.

I'm sure I've made a right decision. It has been so long ago. There is no mom and dad anymore but there is someone who sends me to the corner and then spanks me every week. I'm grateful her for letting me accept a challenge.

That's all?

2012-01-05T11:12:00.000-08:00

- That's all, young lady, - he said letting me to stand up.

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I can't say there was no sting or no pain, but anyway... I was big enough to take more than those humble six strokes. I said nothing while I didn't want to wound an uncle. But I was sure (and I was a hundredfold right) to get more thorough thrashing by aunt.

Unlocking the Fortune

2011-09-05T05:18:00.000-07:00

An empty spanking from another point of view

An empty spanking is a common procedure helping to prevent a girl from misbehaving. It's used just before some key events in the girl's life. It may be tests, interviews, exams, meetings etc..

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This kind of spanking is provided without any preparation or after spanking activities so common for usual spanking procedures. So there are no discussion, corner time, penalties. Some women prefer to get this spanking with a cane over their dresses. The cane is probably the only implement that may be effectively applied this way.

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Experienced women take this spanking as a sort of talisman while it's associated with some happiness, fortune or success. I remember my mom asking for some cane strokes before the visit of daddy's parents. Visits of in-laws have been a kind of exam for her usually. Ten cane strokes under other circumstances is the part of a hard thrashing while when the same ten cane strokes a delivered during empty spanking they are taken as a ticket to success.

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It is possibly a superstition that empty spanking affects the fortune directly anyway this kind of the spanking is very tightly bound to a warranty that everything goes smoothly. I've been asking for the spanking before each visit to the doctor of mine or my daughters when they've been kids and I've been asking for some spanking before each business trip.

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Every stroke with the cane is burning hot so it makes the woman squeal in pain with any hit. Anyway experienced women and girls can take up to ten cane strokes without shedding a single tear. If the upcoming event is very important this pain is worth of it.

Property of Firm Hand Spanking

I've been asking my brother-in-law for ten cane strokes before each date with my present husband when we have been still friends. I can't say safely this caning has been decisive but are successfully married now.

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Not only the cane is suitable for empty spanking. The belt and the strap are very effective too.

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The strap or the belt are probably the best solution when no experienced disciplinarian can give this kind of farewell spanking. I prefer some softer implement when asking for beating my behind by novices.

Property of Girls boarding school

It has been last year in the school when the empty spanking has been applied for the first time to me. It could be the caning or the strapping depending on the importance of the upcoming test or exam.

Property of Girls boarding school

I've been getting a regular thrashing the same day in case of the unsatisfactory result of my test or exam.

Property of Spanking Server

The empty spanking may be even softer. The slapping over the lap or belting in the morning are suitable when applied very often. I'm sure it has to be stinging and burning anyway.

Property of Girls boarding school

University exams are something special and exceptional while I've been caned before each of them and after if the grade hasn't been the higher one. It has been very painful but it has helped me to graduate the university magna cum laude.

Property of Young wife

I think before putting my clothes on maybe I need some spanking for fortune every time my panties are still off.
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A wishlist

2011-06-23T13:04:00.001-07:00

Just a wishlist of books I'd like to have

Spanking for Dummies

Discipline Spanking Reference Book

Everything you always wanted to know about spanking but were afraid to ask

Spanking at Home Pocket Guide

Discipline management Reference Book

Handbook of Advanced Spanking Techniques

Regular Spanking (4)

2011-06-11T06:01:00.000-07:00

The Family

So as a single young woman I've moved to my elder sister's family home in the year 1967. I'm not an intruder. Both my sis and her husband have invited me. My sis is almost ten years elder so her kids (Witol, Eliza and Ruth) have been 10, 8 and 7 already when I've moved to them. I've been sure to stay at sis home for month or two. The life has corrected my plans and I've staid for eight years.


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And what about spanking. My sis has been spanked by her husband on every Saturday. It wasn't a secret for kids but she was spanked in a bathroom or in the bedroom behind the closed door. Witol confessed me he had seen his mom kneeling in the corner after the thrashing few times.


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I was much younger and my sis was treating me not as the sister rather than a grown up daughter though I was 23. It's a common thing to stay barebottomed in the dining-room or in the kitchen at parent's home no matter how old I am and a great difference to get in the similiar situation when sister's kids observe me waiting for the discipline, getting the spanking and kneeling in the corner. Kids were slapped by mom or dad sometimes but those slaps are in no comparision to the thrashing I was getting and the ritual of the domestic discipline I had to undergo.


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I haven't spanked the last two years of my studies and at sis home my discipline and frequent spanking have started immediately. The rules were slightly different than at parents' home. I had to report my every offence the same day and it was likely to be punished not waiting for the Saturday night. I was used to decide myself what spanking was needed when spanked by mom while there some rigorous rules were set without asking my opinion. I was spanked almost daily the first month but I was a smart girl and I learned to obey the rules very quickly.


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And again. Why spanking? I was safe. The spanking makes me feel safe. Someone takes responsibility for my mistakes. I get the spanking and I'm done. Forever. What else? It's a perfect way of correction. Almost everyone wants to make some corrections in their life and I've got the way to do this. It's really helpfull. What about pain? It hurts and stings. The pain is sometimes terrible making me squeal and shout "I'll be good! I promise! It was the very last time!" etc. My tears just prove that the way of correction is right, it makes me put all efforts to change myself. Was I the only young woman in need of spanking? Rather no while I've met some woman that confessed me they prefer to get spanked instead of twits. They were sure the spanking does better than any twit at home or fine at work.


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What about the shame? Just the first time is shamefull while further it becomes a rule. The shame works along with the spanking when that first time isn't in the past yet. I was afraid my friends to get to know about my spanking and I could discuss with them my discipline after some of them had caught me in the action of my thrashing at home. I was afraid my boss to get to know but I got on the right side of him after he had got to know me being disciplined. I was afraid Witol and his sisters to be involved in my spanking but after the first time Witol had spanked me it had become a rule. I rather thank my stars for all those opportunities and novelties.


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I've met my man when I was thirty and I'd left my sister's home a year later. I was an example for Witol and his sisters that the frequent spanking makes a woman feel good. I think it's a great tool when used the right way. It helps to solve numerous problems in the life both of women and men both getting and delivering the spanking.
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Regular Spanking (3)

2011-05-28T07:59:00.000-07:00

Deviation

I think about myself spanked frequently and asking my parents to spank me while begging for mercy in the act of every thrashing. It may seem a nonsense or some perversion for the girl to ask for punishment. It's real anyway. It's real for me and for other girls treated the same way. Much more girls needed this but they didn't get it because of the sloth of their parents and educators. I've met young and elder women understanding their guilt and waiting for the payment at the back of their mind. A couple of sittings is enough to make it clear. If their guilt would paid on regular basis they never meet such psychologic problems. I've noted previously that's hard to imagine an adult women getting a regular spanking when it isn't a follow-up of hte similiar treatment from the past.

How and why it works? I guess one of the key moments in regular spanking is the discussion. The girl understands the purport and the sense of every hit. All reasons and all hits are registered so both the spanker and the girl can see the progress. And there comes a perception. The girl understands that every hit leads to the goal. No matter what that goal is. Some goals may seem unrealizable at the beginning but positive results some time later prove the opposite. It's a milestone for every girl undergoing the regular spanking: "I know - the spanking works!" The same girl that was avoiding her punishment a month ago is asking to spank her harder and it's just a question of time this to happen.

My mom used a calendar to mark the days me getting the spanking. It was before the regular treatment. The next step was a diary. She was filling it every time writing down the count of hits and all reasons. I was filling my diary myself a year later. I remember this time as a continuous nightmare. A lot of things I had to get the thrashing for, I had to write down all my offences and mistakes and as the result no less than fourty belt hits every time. I can't remember the moment I've changed my attitude towards spankig while I remeber the time when I was considering planned fifty hits not enough. I said to mom that I could take more.

So the first thing was understanding that the spanking that didn't make me feel unconfortably didn't work properly. It might be ten hits or it might be fourty hits but if such spanking didn't make me squel it wasn't a final for this goal. There was a lure to solve everything at once while the moderate spanking was leading to the achievment of the same goal by degrees. All young people are maximalists, they want everything at once. I wasn't an exception. Another thing was a pride to take more spanking than ever before.

When I was sure the spanking was good and I needed it everything stopped. I've graduated the school and entered an university. I left the parents' home and no more weekly spankings were in my life. The moment of leaving parents' home is a key in the life of almost all girls especially those spanked on regular basis. I felt a relief and a freedom for the first few monthes while I felt a desperate need of the spanking later. I wasn't ready to ask someone outside of my family to spank me so I used every visit to my parents to get what I'd missed. That was during the first year only. I didn't felt the need of spanking during the second and further years of studies.

My studies were over and I'd got the job in the same town as my sis so I'd to make a decision live with her family and renew the weekly spanking (cause my sis was spanked every week) or continue my life without a regular spanking. I'd chosen the first way. I'm not sure why. Most girls in similiar situations are choosing the life without spanking.
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Regular Spanking (2)

2011-05-21T03:17:00.000-07:00

A personal experience

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What makes me to agree to get a regular spanking? I guess it's an example. There are other reasons too but example of my elder sis (Witol's and Eliza's mother) and mom is determinant. They have been spanked on every Saturday. I remember some other girls and women from my environment getting the spanking and it has been a very hard thrashing sometimes. Those girls that have been spanked on a regular basis have been asking for it. It's not a rule sure but it happens very often.


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There are two parts in the regular spanking I've witnessed - the routine and the punishment. The routine part is almost clear. It's some amount of hits with a belt. I notice my sis and mom smiling sometimes when the spanking is only routine. How can they smile when getting the spanking? They are asking for more additionally when they think they are naughty. I couldn't understand this.


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What about me? The regular spanking has started as the exclusively disciplinary treatment. I'm fourteen and I'm spanked very often. The rigorous discipline results in getting me over mom's or daddy's lap almost every day. I'm getting the belt once or twice a week. A day without spanking is something exceptional.


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It's my fourteenth birthday and mom says I'm a woman already. I know this. I have to make a decision, she says. Big girls are spanked once a week instead of getting their behind blistered almost daily. Are you a big girl, are you ready for weekly spanking? Sure, I am. It's better by far to forget all those daily slaps and smacks. I'm curious anyway. I have to ask to spank me. I'm big and I can do this in any case.


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I can't say it's a pleasure to get my bottom thrashed or discuss with my parents what treatment I deserve for low grades or lack of attitude. It's my choice anyway. I know I'll get my behind blistered and there is no escape. I have to go out of my way to get just the routine part of my spanking. This part is a trifle in comparison to the punishment I get usually. Ten belt strokes as the regular part are followed by the disciplinary part which isn't less than fourty hits.


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I've realized suddenly that the punishment depends on me. It's not so hard to change myself and to get no punishment. When I do something wrong I ask for punishment otherwise I go to seed and much more harder discipline is necessary. Ten hits with the belt is a proof I've been an examplarly girl and I can't stop smiling when asking to give me those ten strokes.
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Regular Spanking (1)

2011-05-09T04:31:00.000-07:00

Tradition


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It's hard to imagine an adult women ordered to pull her panties down for spanking in nowadays. It was hard to imagine fifty years ago too. If the woman isn't spanked for a long period of time the spanking when it is really needed or deserved becomes a kind of extraordinary treatment. One may wonder why the woman does need that spanking while other girls and ladies live without getting spanked at all. My answer is the guilt, the feeling of being guilty. Not the offence or transgression that has to be punished but the guilt. When the girl does something wrong and she does understand that it's wrong she feels the guilt. If the guilt isn't compensated the girl's life becomes frayed, she feels the psychologic discomfort which leads to a depression. I've met a plenty of such women that have the feeling of the uncompensated guilt. The uncompensated guilt has a tendency to grow up.


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Compensation of the girl's guilt is just the practical side of the more basic traditional regular spanking. It's traditional because it has been settled almost two hundreds years ago while it's elements may be observed in ancient times already. The families that are successors of this patriarchal tradition introduce grown up girls into the regular spanking after they are turned to fourteen up to sixteen years, i.e. after they become maidens.


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Contrary to popular belief the traditional regular spanking isn't a brutal strict discipline for every and any trifle rather the manifestation of the girl's femininity. Some elements of discipline are present sure and the hardness of the spanking depends on the girl's behaviour but the spanking is more likely the motivational maintenance discipline and not the punishment for the transgressions done already. I come of such a traditional family and know some other similiar families so my knowledge is practical. Regular spanking gives the opportunity to resolve uncompensated guilts because the discussion of the upcoming spanking is custom with the girl or woman and her spanker.


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Musing befor the spanking and contemplation after it gives the girl an opportunity to survey the whole week (when the spanking is weekly). The survey, analysis and conclusions are efficient for every girl but only the regular spanking lets the girl to do this every week while other girl address theirselves to such contemplation only when the problem occures. The spanking is very important part of the contemplation while it gives the girl a time after it to think about herself. On the other hand the girl remaining barebottomed after the spanking in the corner or facing the wall still has the possibility to ask fo additional treatment after she recollects something that could be resolved by spanking.


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In summary the regular spanking is disciplinary mostly from the side of the girl herself while the spanker is just the executor. The spanker may advice or suggest some additional spanking. The common rule is that when the girl doesn't accept an additional suggested spanking it's worthless to deliver it. The spanker may come down on more intense regular part of the spanking instead. The spanker assists the girl expressing her femininity. The basic part of the spanking is rather mild and soft intimate slapping over the spanker's lap or gentle strapping keeping the girl bent under the spanker's arm.
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Interview with Eliza 2

2011-05-03T13:07:00.001-07:00

March 8, 1994. My office.

Q.: I've prepared some questions and some questions are the same as from your first interview years ago. I guess I know almost all answers but I want to hear them in your words. Some questions may be intimate so you may give no answer if you don't want. When it has been a last time you've got spanked?

A.: On Friday, four days ago.

Q.: What's the reason yoy've been spanked?

A.: There is no reason usually. I'm assisting some psychologists and they ask me sometimes to play a role of a model in visualizations of their patients. It's a role of naughty someone who needs a spanking.

Q.: Do you enjoy that spanking?

A.: No, I don't. But I can take it.

Q.: Are you masochist or maybe submissive?

A.: None of them. I'm ordinary woman that is familiar with the spanking and with the pain of spanking. To be familiar isn't the same as to enjoy.

Q.: Are you paid for such visualizations?

A.: Yes, I am. But by psychologists, not by their patients.

Q.: Do those spankings include some other activities?

A.: Sometimes. I have to explain that all those perversions have been renamed to deviations of sexual life style few years ago. Most of patients are pointed on spanking or discipline sessions only but they are gained over as sexual deviants and a strong association of spanking with a sexual activity is built. A consequence of such association is an ending phase including penis stimulation till a pseudo orgasm.

Q.: Do you mean ejaculation?

A.: Exactly.

Q.: What is the penis stimulation in your case?

A.: In most cases I stimulate patient's penis with a hand, sometimes oral stimulation or anal insertion is needed.

Q.: Do you come during such stimulation?

A.: Never.

Q.: I've used the words "to enjoy the spanking" during your last interview and you haven't complained me. You say you don't enjoy spanking now. Can you explain this?

A.: There have been your words not mine.

Q.: Well. Have you asked for spanking ever?

A.: Sure, I have. You know that I believe in corrective spanking. It may be a one time spanking or a prolonged session. On the other hand I believe in emotional power of spanking, especially when I'm spanked by close friend or by intimate. I need the spanking sometimes and I ask for it when my allusions are not noticed.

Q.: You get a corrective spanking, emotional spanking and the spanking as the model of visualizations. Are there any other kinds of spanking you get?

A.: Yes. I'm spanked by my boss who is investigating new implements and ways of spanking.

Q.: Tell me more about it.

A.: Are you kidding? You are the boss so you can tell more.

Q.: I want you to tell me in your words. Let say the most memorable case.

A.: All cases are memorable. Ok. You are right. One case. I was asked to get no spanking for six monthes. My boss wanted to investigate a short course of intense spanking lasting one month and I had to be a woman that wasn't spanked before. He started with two spankings daily: strapping in the morning and caning before the bedtime. The intensity of spanking was increasing constantly. I got ten strokes with the belt plus five hits with the cane the first day and fourty strokes with belt plus twenty hits with the cane on the last day of the spanking month. He spanked not only my buttocks but backside of my legs up to the middle of my calves, frontside and inner side of thighs too. I was in panic already to the end of the second week. The pain... Not the pain, the sting was overall. The panic fair was changed by the lassitude and by the apathy to the middle of the third week, I was a zombie.

Q.: Do you believe the investigations of your boss are useful?

A.: I guess yes, they are. The case told by me shows the limits for punishment. I know the punishment spanking isn't acceptable but it's still lawfull when accepted by the adult person.

Q.: You have mentioned few days ago getting fifty strokes with the belt and fifty cane strokes on the average during each visualization and it's nothing special for you. You have got thirty strokes with the belt and twelve cane strokes to the end of the second week of mentioned case and you have been in the panic already. Can you explain this?

A.: The way of spanking is different. Other people deliver strapping strokes continuously in one pass and they can't put the full force when hitting. It hurts a lot but I take that pass as one long hard stroke. When caning they do pauses after each hit but not longer as ten seconds and they try to got my bottom and don't pay a special attention to a strength of the hit. My spankings are over in fifteen or twenty minutes usually. My boss, I mean you, hits very straight and hard even with the belt. He waits after every hit for me to take the pain in. I feel every hit and every stroke as a separate spanking.

Q.: What are your preferencies? Which kind of spanking is the best?

A.: I don't have preferencies for the kind of the spanking but for the result of it. I think the spanking has to be painful, I have to feel the sting of every hit. Some spankers want me to feel the shame while exposing my spanked behind to others or other spankers want just clear spanking marks while they enjoy to stare at the result of their efforts.

Q.: I've noticed some pesimistic overtones in your answers. Is it concerned with a spanking or something else?

A.: A hospital in which I've been working for more than ten years is closed a year ago. My licence of nurse is expiring this year and I desperately need a new job as a nurse. I'm sorry Witol. Or another solution is to pay for my qualification exams by myself.

Q.: I see. Do your kids know about you getting spanked? Have your daughters ever seen your spanking?

A.: I don't make the secret of my spanking though I don't allow them to watch me getting spanked. They know the fact of the spanking and they see me in the corner afterwards sometimes.

Q.: Do they see you barebottomed?

A.: Yes, they do. Why not? They see me nude on the beach, they are girls and I am not the man.

Q.: Have you explained them a reason of your spanking and what's your explanation?

A.: I've said I need it for wellbeing. I don't like fish stories.

Q.: Do you know your elder daughter has called me asking to spank you while you are sick and your daughters don't know how they can help you?

A.: It's new for me.

Q.: What do you think about the therapy session? I think three monthes of freequent spanking will make you feel better.

A.: I'm for it.

Q.: Well, we'll discuss it later. You have removed your skirt and panties for this interview. Why?

A.: I've just noticed that almost any dicussion with you ends in me getting the spanking. I as well as other your assistant girl we remove skirt and panties any time you say you need to talk with one of us.

Q.: Thank you for your answers.
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Spanking season

2011-05-02T10:00:00.000-07:00

or an occasion for good girls to get the spanking

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I've noted that various cultures have a ritual spanking or whiping of women at some special ocasions from December to April.

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Christmas, New Year and Epiphany spankings are most popular West Europe and it's the only traditional spanking with some disciplinary elements.

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Lupercalia in Italy is similiar to Pancake Day spanking in some East Slavic countries and it deals with the girl's juvenility and chastity.

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Very similiar by context is the Palm Sunday spanking in Baltic countries where besides the chastity the wellness is mentioned too.


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The Easter Morning spanking in Czechia, Slovakia and Hungary is mentioned in the news and in the press very often. It's similiar to the Sunday after Easter spanking which is very popular too.
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Freewill

2011-03-24T05:49:00.000-07:00

I can't order my assistant to present herself for a spanking when it's not her duties in my office. They are free to accept or reject those requests while I try don't influence their decision.

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There are some people that like spanking but in the role of the spanker. Their wish to spank someone or sometimes a very special girl is similiar to a cases described by Eliza. Those people know that my order would tie the girl's freedom up. The other way to confine the girl - money. When the girl gives her bottom for spanking exclusively by her freewill and free she can stop her thrashing when she sees it becomes unacceptable.

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I don't remeber a case when it's been just a slapping. The rosy girl's bum gives an edge to the wish to spank more and harder.

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It may seem at the beginning of the bespoken thrashing that it's a sober spanking.

Found on Spanking Online

Worse luck! Eliza and Ginte are experienced already the thrashing is hard and long. It may seem it's coming to the end but the spanker says just another few hits, then another few, later another few again. The thrashing lasts three-four hours usually.

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The result is always the same. There is no matter is the spanker experienced or not, is he or she using a belt or a cane, the girl's bottom becomes mauled.

Found on Spanking Online

I want the girls to think again and again before they bend over and expose their bum for someone. Is this person so important in her life? Makes her thrashing this person to feel better? Will this spanking make relations with the spanker worse or better?
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Mastering an overflowing power

2011-03-20T08:51:00.000-07:00

The situation of the power owerflow may be outwardly similiar to the one described in my previous post but it has significant differencies. It is more under the influence of external factors rather than as an expression of inner state. But the problem remains very similiar to obsession while after reaching some critical level of the power the person becomes inadequate. The situation is more common than described priviously though it's not full-scale. The power overflow is very similiar to a Siphon.

One may say it's his problem but why not to help if he isn't indifferent for me? As I've mentioned the person becomes inadequate so he may ruine the own life or life of someone nearby him. He don't know what happens with him and after he has expressed a surplus power everything goes as previously again. Some inanimate object could be an ideal solution for absorbing such power but those people need a close contact with other people when they are enpowered. They need not a simple contact or other people to be with them while they need other people to take their overflowing power. It's offensive language sometimes but an concomitant violence and brawling is more common.

The offensive language shows the situation of overlowed power coming. So there is no problem to notice it and prevent of the overflow offering myself as an absorber of that power. When the overflow is spontaneous the unruled violence is most possible while me taking a command makes this process more manageable. I can't avoid it but I can change the violence into my thrashing. It's not so terribly as it may seem at first sight. The overflowing power isn't an obsession and it consists of one-two spankings usually. Every spanking is painful but it helps to prevent a distress.

The power overflow happens almost regularly from one time in three monthes to one time in a couple of years. The regularity depends on steps the person is taking to change himself and avoid such overflow. Three-four monthes is the most presumptive interval for overflow to recur.

I offer myself when the person doesn't know how to suppress his power overflow but later he knows the receip and has recurrence to me when needed. The persons affected by power overflow are presented by men and women equally. Women ask me to help them more often than men. How make them have no scruple when offering the help. I say that's not the first time for me and I know what's coming. The second thing I want them to know that they avoid mess in their family, at work and in public. The third thing (and probably the most important) is that I want them to have an alternative to the violence no matter where that violence may take place.

The overflow isn't an obsession so scenario of the thrashing isn't so important. The goal of the process is to make me feel a pain. The level of the pain is expressed by my reaction to it (scream, tears, begging for mercy) and marks on my body. Clear and visible marks are very important so I offer a light cane instead the more common belt. The spanking lasts an hour when the belt is used what makes me squeal and results in dark blue buttocks and legs though it's not completed usually and is followed by a hourly straping after some break. The caning includes 20-30 hits in one approach and up to six-eight such approaches. I tray to arrange my thrashing as an intro strapping for thirty-forty minutes and the caning in several approaches what results in very clear marks and my natural tears and squeal.

Taming the monster

2011-03-19T17:28:00.000-07:00

I've mentioned in my interview about offering myself for someone looking for to spank me. Some people get into situation when their power exceeds all possible limits. If this happens often then the man or the lady joins the BDSM community and solves their problems in the group helping themselves and others. Sometimes it's just a single case and the overall BDSM activity isn't suited for such persons or even most BDSM practices are disgusting for them. But such person knows about spanking and believes it's exactly what he or she needs. I don't know what causes such obsession but I know that after spanking most of those people are the same as before.

What I've got to know about these fantasies and obsessions? I know these problems are concerned with psychology. People ask their psychologists what they have to do. I have asked some acquainted me psychologists what's the answer. The answer is one - if the obsession doesn't include something illegal - try it. When the person doesn't try the obsession remains the fantasy projected to a real life and people in it resulting in something completely not predicted and not acceptable. After the person realizes their obsession it becomes experience, not fantasy, and projection is to the past while present and future remain clear and other people safe.

Why me? My calling is to help people, according to this calling I'm the nurse. I can take exceeding power while other girls don't. I get into nightmare usually but this is the price of my vocation.

It's very hard to make a right decision. I understand I can't expect the ordinary spanking. It's something exceptional play and I'm a second actor in it. It may take day or two or three. I have prepare myself, e.g. buy some lotion for treatment of welts and buy soothing pills. Nobody uses soothing pills for ordinary spanking or punishment while this deform results. But this case is exceptional and I can't imagine how too bear such thrashing without pills.

And again. I can't know about real reason when spanked by the man while it may be his sexual fantasy and offering him a close contact at the beginning to resolve his worries is a great mistake. I don't interrupt the process when I see it's a sexual fantasy while it's no less painful for him as other obsession but I have to be more careful. I succeeded to avoid a real sex, while tactile vaginal intrusion and oral contacts are common. There is a common rule of such play that someone has to drop in and check the situation especially when the spanker is the man.

The play consists of separate spankings various by their duration, strength, implement, position etc. Each spanking has it's foreplay and ending. All spankings are bound by the background which is really the essence of the fantasy. The most common are "The education of the naughty teenager", "Punishment of Jezebel", "Correction or reformatory of a young woman". Men spank a little harder usually but they don't talk so much. So the play flows in silence interrupted by smacks of the belt or the cane and my moans. If the man likes to talk during spanking he talks about something sideline not spanking related usually.

Women build a complicated play while men simply spank. So men are over in one night or in one night and day. Women try to actualize everything they know about spanking and everything related with the spanking. To keep in step with the woman is very difficult while the scenario is unknown for herself too and she comes to the next step by accident. The woman's play lasts two or three days.

The play may include numerous spanking related activities: spanking palms and soles, standing or kneeling in the corner, writing lines or dictation, self-spanking, mouth soaping, enema, anal or vaginal fixation. Every of them may be acceptable when used alone but if they are used all and in one day - it's a real torture.

Some problems may occure when spanking buttocks opened wide or area around the perineum. The vulva opens slightly after few hits showing labia minor which are usually wet. The spanker takes it as a sexual excitment caused by the spanking what isn't true.

There are some things not experienced spankers don't know. When the pain is really unbearable the sphincter releases per se. That is - the self-urination and the self-flow of excrement may happen. The only way to prevent this is restricting the meal and drink the same day and day before. On the other hand a dehydration may take place caused by perspiration and as a consequence occures a deficit in magnesium what may result in convulsion.

So what it is?

One woman's fantasy has been a "Punishment book" I've retained for myself.

Action	Area	Implement	Count	Time
Coming home	Bottom	Belt	60	17.30
Grasping a hand	Palms	Belt	20	17.40
Moving while kneeling	Thighs	Belt	20	18.20
Squirming during writing	Soles	Belt	20	19.20
Line writing mistakes	Bottom	Belt	40	19.30
Backtalking	Bottom	Belt	40	20.30
Moving while kneeling	Thighs	Belt	20	20.50
Goodnight	Doorway	Belt	40	22.00
Awekening	Thighs	Cane	20	6.30
Grasping a hand	Palms	Cane	6	6.40
Beginning of the day	Bottom	Belt	40	7.30
Moving while kneeling	Thighs	Belt	20	8.10
Dictation mistakes	Bottom	Cane	20	10.00
Moving while kneeling	Thighs	Cane	10	10.20
Fooling around	Bottom	Cane	20	12.40
Hands on bottom	Bottom	Belt	40	13.10
Backtalking	Calves	Belt	40	14.40
Squirming during lunch	Thighs front-side	Belt	40	15.30
Urination in the corner	Thighs	Cane	20	15.50
Sluggish doing chores	Calves	Cane	10	16.40
Squirming during writing	Soles	Belt	30	17.50
Line writing mistakes	Bottom	Belt	20	18.00
Review of the day	Bottom, thighs	Cane	40	19.30
Grasping a hand	Palms	Cane	10	20.10
Moving while kneeling	Soles	Cane	10	20.40
Goodnight	Doorway	Belt	40	22.00
Awekening	Thighs	Cane	20	6.30
Beginning of the day	Bottom	Belt	40	7.20
Thank you	Bottom, thighs	Cane	20	8.00
Note. "Doorway" is the inner- and front-side of thighs around vulva.

She is an exceptionally soft and reverential young woman and we are friends still. I have keep in mind that I'm not an addressee of the obsession while I just take it's power liberating the obsessed person from the inner monster.
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The flow of time

2011-03-17T18:06:00.000-07:00


Found on Real Life Spanking

A little of nostalgia for old times. I wasn't alone in my class that was spanked by parents frequently. So dropping in to my classmate I could find her with a rosy bottom waiting for another portion of domestic education as well as coming home from school I could find mom in the kitchen after her discussion with dad.


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I parallel nowadays with my experience. It's circa thirty-forty years. When I was realy naughty the punishment was realy hard and clear marks were visible more than one or two weeks. The girl is sure she has got a real thrashing in nowadays while her bottom remains rosy to the next morning.


Found on Spank My Bottom	Found on Lupus Spanking

The nuts and bolts of wellbeing in the family is the regular spanking for wives and daughters. Someone may not agree with such statement but it's true or to be more exactly my experience of life proves this. I was spanked every week by dad and later by husband, my granny was spanked by grandfather. Everything in the family was o.k. till the spanking was carried out regularly.


Family Spanking

I don't know what's happened 25 years ago. I've noticed and other girls too that men have slacked. "I'm tired" and instead of moderate thrashing I was getting just few slaps and what was the worst that sometimes I wasn't spanked at all though I was ready. I was begging for mercy few years earlier "No, please. I'll be good I swear, it was a very last time" and next I had to beg to spank me the same way.

I was left for myself. And not only me. I could see other young but lonely ladies that will never be spanked by their men. I didn't see a way to help me and them.

I've bought a belt and measured it to my bottom and I've realised suddenly that there is no man to apply this belt accross my bum. So what's the way out? Maybe modern technologies?..

The first interview with Eliza

2011-03-15T08:31:00.000-07:00

Just got inspired by Eliza's post. I'd begun to collect all available info regarding various aspects of spanking more than 30 years ago while I'd noticed some interest by my clients/patients. Interviews were the way to collect all necessary info. The first person I'd interviewed was my sis Eliza. There were some interviews with her later too, but the first is probably the most interesting.

May 13, 1983. My office.

Q.: To be sure we talk about real thing, when it has been a last time you've got spanked?

A.: Two weeks ago, since I get it no less than once a week usually.

Q.: You say once a week. What is the reason to spank you?

A.: Usually? There is no definite reason usually. It's a matter of routine with some exceptions sometimes.

Q.: If it's a routine so what it is based on? Discipline, erotica, state of health or something else?

A.: I'd rather say correction while it includes all of mentioned by you.

Q.: Punishment?..

A.: No. Not a punishment. I'm twenty five, I'm married so what punishment we can talk about? Correction fits the best. Or may be the words mommies say to their spanked daughters.

Q.: "It's for your own good"?

A.: Exactly. I feel better after the spanking.

Q.: I remember the time when it hasn't been the truth. What or who has made you to change your mind?

A.: I don't know when it happened exactly. The granny was the first person that said all girls need frequent spanking and smart girls accept and enjoy what they need. Aunt Justine and mommy set a good example of the acceptance. But it wasn't a reason that had changed my mind. I guess Anton. And Max of course. To be more exact I'd tried to accept my discipline by parents and you but the spanking was too hard to be acceptable usually but I was happy to get smacks over grannys lap instead. I think the question is not about overall acceptance but about the hardness I can take without losing a selfcontrol. The level of hardness has increased from the smacking with a hand to the thrashing with a bamboo cane. I can't accept any spanking anytime anyway.

Q.: Well. About correction. What about an expression "You deserve it"?

A.: I think the correcton isn't the same as the punishment but "You deserve it" isn't the part only of the punishment. I may deserve it positively trying to get the spanking I want and from the person I want. Or I can deserve it negatively as the result of my bad manners.

Q.: But you say you're twenty five so how can you deserve the spanking negatively?

A.: When I deserve the spanking for something bad I get it more than once. Let say it's a continuous correction.

Q.: I understand your answers this way: you don't like the word "punishment" while "correction" is o.k.

A.: Maybe...

Q.: You say you enjoy the spanking so what spanking has to be applied to make it corrective?

A.: I'm strapped usually or caned sometimes. When the spanking isn't the correction I get up to twenty hits with a belt or five hits with a cane otherwise I get more and more than once a week.

Q.: Who can give you a corrective spanking?

A.: Max. His mom. Our mommy. And you of course.

Q.: And not corrective spanking?

A.: I guess anybody.

Q.: Are there some persons you prefer to be spanked by?

A.: Sure. Max, you, aunt Justine, your God-father.

Q.: You havn't mentioned our mommy. Why?

A.: She doesn't like to spank.

Q.: Do you enjoy the pain?

A.: No, I don't. Spanking isn't just the pain. I foreknow your next question. So I'm not submissive, believe me.

Q.: I know. You've said your last spanking has been two weeks ago. Do you want me to spank you now?

A.: Sure I do.

Forty minutes later.

Q.: Few questions regarding this spanking. It's not the correction and you kneel facing the wall after the spanking. Why?

A.: Let say it's a part of a ritual.

Q.: Most women wear pantyhose and you wear stockings. Is this related with the spanking?

A.: Yes, it is. I may put no panties on after the spanking when wearing stockings what prevents the bottom from itching. On the other hand for most men a view of the woman in stockings is more exciting rather than in pantyhose.

Q.: You have said previously that non corective spanking is twenty hits with a belt usually. I've delivered you seventy hits. Why you don't object against me after the twentieth hit?

A.: I never complain the spanker's decision to spank me more than I've expected. There may be a reason I don't know. I believe in my spanker.

Q.: What ground is of your trust to the spanker?

A.: There is no other way. I'm in position barebottomed and moaning while spanker has the belt or the cane in his hand. I simply can't make it plain to him my objections. If he isn't right he makes excuses afterwards and if I'm not right I deserve additional spanking for interrupting him. On the other hand when I'm in position barebottomed I'm exposed not only for the spanking and my believe in a man is the essential condition to stay in such position.

Q.: What is the most presumptive reaction of your husband about this spanking? Will he punish you for letting someone else not him to spank you?

A.: I'm a passive part in spanking so he asks usually what's the reason and sometimes spanks me more if he is sure I deserve more than I've got.

Q.: We have discussed your needs. What about someone that needs or looks for spanking you?

A.: Just a few times. I give my behind usually though I expect it to be more brutal and painful than ever before. I wasn't right just once when Anton gave me few smacks over his lap.

Q.: That's enough for today. Thank you. And don't forget to put your skirt on before leaving the office.
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Take it for me

2011-03-11T10:35:00.000-08:00

It happened just after the first New Year I'd spent not at parent's home. It was in January 1977. Me and another girl (her name was Liz as mine) were lodged at my mom's studies mate Veronica.

My parents had given me a freedom for decision regarding my discipline after I'd entered the medic school. "You are almost an adult and you may decide need you the spanking or not," - they said. I was sure I didn't need it and I'd spent four months without a single slap. After the first term-time exams I wasn't so sure about the need of spanking though I hadn't asked for it. My parents didn't mind my decision again: "You're in charge of your future yourself," - mommy said.


Found on Family Spanking	Found on Spanked Cutie

I was taken aback Veronica announcing one day after I'd come home from school: "Your mom has called me. She wants me to spank you at least once a week. She says you know why. Just remember results of your exams." I had never demurred to my spanking and I'd said nothing this time too. "I guess Saturday morning as a matter of routine is the best time for your discipline," - she said. I had never made the secret about my regular spanking at home by parents and brother and Veronica knew I'd been spanked every Saturday.


Found on Real Life Spanking

"I'm sure it was my mom's call not yours," - my room mate said after we were alone. "Please, take it for me. I'm terribly nervous. Please." She was begging me with tears in her eyes. She was really white about the gills.

I had to make decision. Spanking wasn't a pleasure sure. But there was no matter to panic anyway. May be it was a chance to get the spanking I'd needed but felt embarrassed to ask for. So Liz and me had made a bargain to let the events run and say nothing to Veronica and our parents.


Found on Spanking Server

The spanking wasn't hard. I'd rather said Veronica was slapping me not thrashing. The things had changed substantially about a month later when Veronica had offered her son to spank me. Anton was a four years elder young man. I'd been spanked by my brother the last year at school so I'd suspected my spankings become a really hard thrashings. But not this was a problem. To be spanked by a woman in age of my mother is one thing and by the young man just another. Veronica was savvy enough to assist her son during first spanking. Anton had seen me in the corner with bare rosy behind sure but it was beyond all comparison of bending in front of him for the strapping. But like cures like anyway and after the forty hits tears were flowing and there was no thought about the shame. Just the first spanking was so hard. Anton was giving me twenty strokes with his folded belt usually.

I could stay clear-headed when the spanking was not too hard and I had noticed Anton was excited by my nudity and not only by it. I was excited too and not only by getting spanked by him sure. He had invited me to few parties with his friends and I'd met Max. The fact was that Max and me married eight monthes later. Max knew everything about me a month after our acquaintance and he was spanking me instead of Anton another month later.


Found on Young wife

I'd found another side of spanking with Max. Even when I was spanked to help me in my studies or when I was punished some erotic elements were present. I was married for thirty one years and only few monthes during my pregnancy there were no weekly spankings. I had no regrets about getting spanked again and again.

Found on Young wife

And what about another Liz? She is happy with no spanking in her life.
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Abstinence crisis

2011-02-24T16:21:00.000-08:00

Found on Spanked office girls

I've undergone three courses of training helping me in losing my weight. I haven't been spanked by my parents before so Witol's words "The spanking may change your life" have been for me matter-of-course.


Found on Real Life Spanking	Found on Real spanking

Witol has spanked me first two monthes and the I've been spanked at home by elder brother. I've been ashamed of my buxom body and of my nudity.


Found on Real spanking

Frequent spanking has made it's job - I've been not afraid to bare myself or to let my bro raise my skirt.

Found on Spanked office girls

I've been waiting for every spanking. I can't say I've been happy. I know it's helping me in getting better result and this result is everything.


Found on Lupus Spanking

The third course has been the worse. Very hard and frequent caning results in swalowed bottom and almost ideal figure

Found on Spanked office girls

Vuala! I can put a real mini on and not be afraid of it. I've been really happy for almost six monthes and I can see the New Millenium in as completely another girl. My mommy and my friends have noticed me become a cheerful pretty girl. I'm not sure it has happenned six monthes later anyway I've been missing something and I can't understand what. I've been "forgetting" to put panties while wearing skirt or dress and I've been wearing provocative short skirts only.


Found on Spanked office girls	Found on Family Spanking

I've been staying bottomless at home to crown it all. There is no need for me to fight against my shame as I've found in some posts here. It's something different.

Found on Firm Hand Spanking

Vuala again! Witol has asked me for help in his office. The assistant of the herbalist and of the spanker (herbalist maybe not so important) gets her bottom spanked more frequent than any other girl. The first day in his office has shown me what I've been missing for all these monthes.
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Apology

2011-02-22T15:11:00.000-08:00

It's time to make an apology especially for my new assistant and dresser Lenka. Force major. I can't find other words to describe what's happenned to me and my business a month ago. I have to move my office and herbs repository to a new place till the middle of March. A complete zeitnot.

I've planned to test new techniques with Lenka and promised her a regular treatment - I've spanked her today for the first time this year instead. I feel bad about it.
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Suspension of Punishment

2011-01-26T14:42:00.000-08:00

Preposterous reality

I'm lucky wife and mother while both my husband and daughter understand the need of therapy spanking I get every week. My in-laws take this treatment as discipline and I can't change their mind though the problem is they live with us in one home. Father-in-law is my spanker already five years since my husband has got a new gainful job but spends a lot of time at duty journeys.

Found on Spanking Online

My medicine is fourty belt strokes once a week. It realy works and it's enough for me to feel good. Father-in-law takes these fourty strokes as the basis a kind of maintenance spanking and then adds usually some more with a cane for my "offences". It’s no use arguing with him so I accept those additional ten or fifteen cane strokes.


Found on Real Spanking

Weekly caning over the strapping results in constantly reddenned behind and appearance of some wounds and welts. His offer to use a cane instead of the belt has been appreciated by me.


Found on Spanking Server

The caning is more painful sure but I get ten cane strokes instead of fourty hits with the belt what is a good deal I guess. My caning is more severe of course while father-in-law add some strokes for my "offences". The pain is severe but tolerable. The main problem has started three years ago after his decision to add ten strokes for staying me in thong during spanking. I don't what does he think about woman's monthly cycle but I simply can't get more than twenty five or thirty cane strokes a week - it's too much for me. So I am asking not for mercy but for delay of some part of my spanking. I've been sure him to forget this shortly since he's seventy eight. Worse luck!

The first time I have asked for spanking delay has been almost three years ago. The moment he is waiting for has come: my husband isn't present for one month and my daughter is away on a trip with the class for twelve days. I've seen my daughter off to the station and just have entered home when he offers me to take a suspended punishment. He has a special diary with all delayed spankings in it and he waits for my assent to take five hundred eighty five cane strokes. «You have promised me to take this spanking later. That "later" has come. I agree for some abatement let say twenty strokes two times a day.»

Found on Ladies never too old for spanking

Yes. I've promised. I have respect for my promise. My bottom has become one welt all-over to the fourth day as well as backside and frontside of my legs to the end of those twelve days. The only way to rest is to lie on my flank or to stand and what is more a week later I've got a regular fifty strokes. I expect another spanking the day after tomorrow. I've never agreed to kneel after my spanking by the way but I'm typing this post while standing on my knees.
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Negative vs Positive (3)

2011-01-25T05:34:00.000-08:00


Found on Spanking Images

What is the positive in spanking? It ends and this is the first positive caused by it. The spanking comes to the end as faster as earlyer it's started so experienced girls prefer not to put it off. The redbottomed girl in the corner is the sign the spanking is over. Or it's almost over. There has to happen something special to get an additional spanking after the corner time.

Found on Real Spanking

The girl lightens after the spanking no matter what the reason is of her thrashing: punishment, maintenance or therapy. She has not to wait in anticipation. The pain of spanking changes inner motives of the girl drastically and the unsolvable problem is changed by thye spanking into the matter of indifference to it suddenly.


Found on Firm Hand Spanking	Found on Young wife

Another positive that takes place very often is excitment by nudity. The girl has to feel the shame while showing her privates to other people though some people or the spanker too show their interest to the girls nude body and involve the girl's excitment as the result. I've got a thrill out of showing my nude bottom to my cousin or my husband before our marriage. These aren't the only examples of men in front of them my nudity has been involving the excitement. This feeling is similiar to those when putting on a tight mini skirt or tiny dress.


Found on Ladies never too old for spanking

Another positive is a relief that comes few hours after the spanking especially after hard therapy ones. It's a kind of still and bliss. The girl that has experienced this feeling will never forget it.

I'm sure there are more positives caused by spanking. May be other girls will write down their experiences and thoughts too. I understand now why my mother has been getting ready for the spanking with a smile on her face.

Found on Ladies never too old for spanking

Negative vs Positive (2)

2011-01-23T08:47:00.000-08:00

Found on Spanking Online

Four to five years are enough to make a regular punishment spanking not effective as I've mentioned in my previous post. It's because the negative part of the punishment decreases and the girl starts to take in the benefits of her spanking. This is the most possible reason my parents have stopped with my weekly discipline though the routine spanking has been unobjectionable for me at this time. I've been spanked no more than a dozen of times after I've passed into university up to my marriage seven years later. This post isn't about me anyway.


Found on Spank Christina	Found on Lupus Spanking

The part of the shame in negative feelings becomes more ponderable with an age of the girl. It seems sometimes that the shame is no less important as the pain. The fact of the spanking becomes more public in the course of time. The girl feels the shame for getting spanked when she surmises her family gets to know about her discipline. She is afraid her kids may get to know later, then neighbours and friends and collegues. The fact is that her discipline becomes public in her environment in about two years. So no kids nor acquaintances are the reason of disgrace as it turns out later. The only thing that remains shameful is her nudity and the course of her spanking witnessed by people not involved in spanking process.


Found on Spanking Online	Found on Punished Wife

Some spankers fuss about lack of negative feelings. I guess it's a natural process of positive result of every spanking getting closer to the course of spanking. This makes the girl to be not afraid of upcoming spanking or even urging the spanker to start with it.


Found on Punished Girls	Found on Spanking Online

So the harder and the longer spanking is unjustified while the result is the same.
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Negative vs Positive (1)

2011-01-21T06:46:00.000-08:00

Found on Parental Discipline

I remember from my adolescence the fair before every spanking after I've got a bad grade or have done something inappropriate. A terrible sting and disgraceful kneeling in the corner together with the fair of getting spanked are those negative experinces that are discussed in previous posts.


Found on Real Spanking	Found on Parental Discipline

There is time to mention, thet all negative experiences work cause they are negative but the goal is some overall positive. A young girl doesn't feel this positive as a result of spanking. She takes some things getting better by itself not as the result of some outside factors.


Found on Parental Discipline

The girl's blinker makes her to feel exceptionally the negative experience. I've gone through this. I've got experienced at the same time my mother's nonchalance about her spanking and a pleased smile after it.


Found on Spanking Online	Found on Girls boarding school	Found on Parental Discipline

Some tolerance to the spanking has helped me to surmount a fair and the pain hasn't been so sore as previously a year after the beginning of the regular spanking. I've been accustomed to the spanking fully another year later. The spanking has become routine so parents have been adding some new elements to it to make it beyond the pale. More shame and more painful spanking are effective for some monthes. It doesn't mean the spanking becomes a kind of pleasure. Any punishment remains the negative experience as previously maybe just not so terrible.


Found on Parental Discipline

The next thing that happens after the panic fair of spanking has gone is the gradual perception that the spanking helps me to try more in getting better grades and in growing up. My endeavour is very important still while the spanking is just a help. What follows? I've been one step from asking to spank me. I've asked to spank me just after I've graduated a school.

Found on Spanking Online

Homecoming

2011-01-11T06:23:00.000-08:00


Found on Family Spanking	Found on Young wife

I'm back. It's so nice to find someone waiting for me at home. It's nice someone has posted here though I've been sure it happen more frequent.


Found on Young wife	Found on History of Spanking

Let talk about pantyless lifestyle first of all. The girl wearing no panties under her skirt or dress maybe is a kind of exciting. She maybe shows her readiness for the spanking. I'm npt sure about the reason. I don't think the girl has to be ready for her spanking at every moment while she has to get ready after her displinarian says her to get ready. It's a common practice and it's proven out. There is no difference what kind of spanking is comming. Pulling panties down only after her disciplinarian's order is the way to show her obedience while the girl without panties can't show she obeys the spanker's order. Eliza is right saying panties around girl's knees absorb the girl's attention and mmake feel her uncomfortable. I guess it's the reason to keep them around girl's knees. Just read what other girls say. The spanking is a negative experience. It's true. The spanking becomes less negative every spanking after spanking and additional measures keeping the spanking negative are necessary. It's because the spanking works while it's negative.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies

Pantyless is more precarious than bottomless while bottomless is a strictly domestic or private outfit. Pantyless girl feels herself as a fully dressed one so she don't care about her confidence or she cares the same way as other girls. I'd like to ask the girls what they feel after they find they are flashing.
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After the training

2010-12-17T07:02:00.000-08:00

Eliza's know-hows aren't new for me while I know them since my training by Witol and Eliza. My dad has been bitter about me getting spanked by a stranger (fortunately for me the training has been carried out me being not at home). He's changed from indulgent daddy to a faultfinder immediately he's got to know about my training. Some accusations have been reasoned and other not, but he's been ready to spank me for any of them. And he's spanked me not taking my no.

It’s not on to say "No" when someone has a belt in his hand and I'm barebottomed. My situation hasn't fitted no one Eliza's advice exactly. What I have to do and how I have to behave? To leave parents' home it's the same as to cut loose from the family. To stay at home means to assent to my discipline. I've chosen the second way.

I've thrashed out all possible reasons to get spanked and what I'm doing wrong. Dad has been spanking me by his fit after he's pumped me out about all happenings of the day. My first statement - don't argue against him. I've promised to myself to get ready for the spanking unresisting and undressed already. I can take the spanking quietly the same way I've been taking my training. I've promised to myself to remind dad if he omits my offences. I've promised to myself to kneel down after the spanking not trying to cover my thrashed bottom and to kneel in quiet not letting my brother to taunt me. I've put everything on paper. Nonsense. It's impossible to follow all steps. This nightmare lasts the week so maybe I have to wait and everything would work out in itself.

Let say it's a training similiar to one I've undergone already. Let say the goal of this training is to stop argue against my parents and not those foolish offences (no one in the world is punished for such manners I think). It's training then. So I have get spanking daily no matter have I argued against my parents or no. I'm spanked daily in any case already. I have to get some spanking for every backtalk in addition to the punishment my parents set me. No, that's wrong way as I may get a thorough punishment while no argues and I can volunteer for punishment everytaime I think I've deserved it. So what? I've been at a deadlock.

I've sent an e-mail to Eliza and I've got an answer the same day.

1. Your parents give a loose to their feelings simply so your daily spanking isn't presumptive in the nearest future.
2. Are you sure you are ready to take a punishment for every your backtalk? If yes, you have to get the punishment no matter how hard you've been spanked for something else.
3. I'm not sure your argues and backtalks are so bad habits that need a training to kick them.
4. You are right in the rest - don't counter your punishment, you readiness will be counted.
5. Keep repeating on your mind "I need this spanking".
6. The last thing. Asking for punishment isn't demerit. When you think you'll be punished then ask for the spanking, forestall your parents bringing a charge against you. Your asking for the punishment can't be token, you have be ready for it.

Well. I carry training against my argues and backtalks forward. I can only wish me a good luck for the rest.

Mommy and dad pry me out after I've come home from the college. I try to stay calm though Ie retort a couple of times. "Do you know you deserve a punishment therefor?" - dad asks. "Yes, I do." Sure I do. It's the only dad's question day by day almost two weeks already. The most solemn moment is coming: I unbutton my skirt and take my panties off without a word. Dad has started my spanking over skirt previously, later over panties and only to the end over bare. Every spanking ends over bare bottom anyway. I bend over the table next without a word again instead of struggling with him and mommy. My parents are in astonishment. Dad pulls his belt out and my punishment begins. I try to press my breast down to the table and stay still. Mommy recites my "offences" I'm spanked for. "That's all" - dad says. "No greeting with neighbour remains" - I say while bent over the table still. Another few strokes and I straighten my back. "Go into the corner and muse your behaviour, young lady," - mommy says. I go to the TV and kneel down facing the wall. Mommy helps me to stand up and huges me no more than ten minutes later. No such tenderness previously, no hugs or kisses.

I'm spanked another three times this way. Dad says it's weekend and there is no need. The time has come to have a talk.
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Know-how for the girls

2010-12-15T07:13:00.000-08:00

1. Don't expect your spanking will be cancelled

It's a main and most often mistake of me and most girls to hope for the cancelled spanking. Try to think like your spanker thinks "This girl needs a spanking". If your spanker says "It's for your own good" - believe him. If it's hard to you to change your mind try to repeat for youself as a mantra "I need this spanking. I want be spanked." It works even if you think athwart these words.

Never try to bring round your spanker to cancel the spanking while it's really in your own good to be spanked on regular basis if such a decision is made once.

2. I don't like a long spanking

I like my spanking to end as soon as possible. So I don't like to stand in the corner for an hour before the spanking and another hour after it. I prefer to kneel barebottomed with my hands on a head and since it's a more severe measure it's intended to last no more than ten minutes.

The spanker starts usually with a warm-up and then stiffens the spanking step by step. It takes a long time so I ask for a strap or for a cane straight off after the warm-up. I know by experience that the spanking produces the same pain no matter how it's carried out. So I simply exclude long smacking with a hairbrush, slipper or similiar implements.

3. Be honest

Be honest with you spanker and with yourself. When you are spanked once or twice a week some monthes later the pain of the same spanking isn't so stinging as before so you need more spanking for the same result. Tell it for your spanker, ask him to add some more hits with a preferred implement.

When you feel an irresistible wish to rub your bottom during the spanking ask for it, don't rub your bottom without a permission while it may lead to injury of your hands. Anyway it's much better to get your palms strapped as a penalty measure instead of having your fingers broken with a cane.

4. Your opinion counts

If you don't agree with your punishment or the part of it - say it but don't ask to cancel it. The best solution is to say that you don't agree while you want to to get it anyway. This makes your spanker to think your punishment again and maybe it will help to spank you less the next time. The best time to say your opinion is when your punishment is over. Remember to ask for more when you think you deserve more than you've got.

5. Winter - the best time for a rest of your bottom

Not only your bottom fits for a spanking making you cry and squeal. Use a winter for spanking over your thighs, all parts of them are good for spanking and the spanking is more stinging at the same time.

6. Winter is the best time to get all delayed spankings

If there are some delayed punishments the winter is probably the best time to get them all. My bottom and my legs are covered all the time in winter so they can stay patterned for month after the prolonged discipline session.

7. Wear stockings instead of pantyhose

If a weather isn't very cold I prefer to wear stockings instead of pantyhose and no panties when I know I'll get the spanking any minute now. I put my panties over garter belt not under it while it enables me to remove my panties very quickly and with confidence.

8. Don't be ashamed

Easier said than done. Anyway if your spanker tells you to raise your skirt in some strange surroundings - do it. Even if you think it's not deserved - do it anyway. You may say your position afterwards while some significant reasons to spank you you'll notice during the spanking.

9. And again

Reserve your opinion and wishes to the end of your spanking. Be honest - ask for more if you think your punishment is too soft. Trust in your spanker always.

Deputy spanker (4)

2010-12-14T05:32:00.000-08:00

I want to mention in my posts some key moments of negative experience during the spanking ant this way to invite other girls to share their memories. I believe only people in spanking come to this blog so all writings aren't public.

As I've mentioned already earlier the spanking is a negative experience for spanked girls. But the same spanking is a positive for the spanker that spanks the girl. The spanker thrashes the girl because he loves her and the spanking helps her to grow-up and the girl needs it. When the girl perceives this rule (that her spanking is positive for her spanker) she's on account to trust him and eventualy do everything he's asking her to do. The only setback on this way may be the girl's fear or reluctance to bare her bottom anytime she's asked to do this. Such a setback brings some misunderstanding into the girl's and her spanker relationships while the spanker faces the girl's refuse for some positive action so he has the one way to do it giving her some extra spanking (while positive action is never too much). The only solution for the girl is to surmount her fear of nudity and conform the rules set by her spanker.

An empty spanking before my outing to a party has been a first time when I've refused to bare my bottom while my former roommate has called for me. It has been a case of my fear to let my friends to know me getting spanked (not so great problem while I've never made a secret of it) and getting spanked while wittnessed by her. When I look back at this case from the position of nowadays I understand that my aunt's persistency to spank me anyway has been the only right solution. The laid spanking can't be cancelled anyhow while this cancellation may become a precedent for further cancellations and losing the control over the girl that needs the spanking. My aunt's tight position has made me to obey and I've got the empty spanking in the kitchen while my roommate has been waiting for me in the living room. There is a great difference in letting someone to know about my spanking and wittnessing my spanking. On the other hand the person wittnessing the girls spanking become a kind of spanker's associate thus taking a responsibility for the girl's education and surveillance.

To make everything going swimmingly I need to synchronize my feelings with my spanker's feelings. I have to made my trust in my spanker a subconscious. This includes my ability to bare my bottom anytime I'm asked to do this. So I return to a statement that the girl has to train herself from wearing no panties to staying bottomless. It may seem as a kind of obsession but I see it as the only way to surmount a fear of nudity and as a consequent obey any spanker's order. The obey doesn't change my position about the nature of the spanking from negative to positive but it lets me understand and take in the spanker's position. This is applicable to an empty punishment first of all.

The most controversial and ambiguous spanking is an empty punishment. When getting the empty punihment I'm spanked for something I haven't done. So no one can say this spanking is really deserved. I've always trusted in my spanker and if he or she says I have to get an empty punishment I simply must present my bottom for spanking. I remember just a couple of cases when I've been thrashed after the empty punishment. I'm getting the empty spanking before almost any outing (party, theatre, picnic etc.) for more than twenty years. This spanking doesn't counts as a part of maintenance discipline so I may be spanked everyday and then get the maintenance spanking on Friday night. Some people say the empty spanking is the expression of the distrust. Maybe it's the reason the girls (and me too) don't like to talk about it. Anyway I have to acknowledge the empty punishment is effective. It's probably the only case when I have to ask to spank me and this is another reason to exclude it from my chats.

The spanker punishes me in advance preventing me of making offences and this action is very positive in his mind since it negative for me. If I take the empty punishment as the positive experience just as a rule not in real it helps me to ask for the spanking everytime I'm intended to get it. The empty spanking is very short in time and is executed exactly before the event requiring it. I haven't let go my hold of getting it so I'm prepared for it when I ask to spank me though I hate this moment.
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Deputy spanker (3)

2010-12-13T07:26:00.000-08:00

The spanking itself is just one of the negative experiences in therapy spanking, training or punishment. Another very important negative experience is the shame. The shame of nudity is very strong cause the public opinion and education. The girl's panties is the last thing she's taking off whe undressing and the first thing to take off for spanking. The girl may reduce the shame of nudity while habituating the staying pantyless or bottomless at home first of all. The girl's nudity isn't something new for other inhabitans of the home while they can see her standing in the corner before and after the spanking. The shame of nudity is important for discipline very seldom while the main accents are the spanking and the shame of getting the spanking. The wont to stay at home bottomless helps the girl to avoid the shocking shame even in situations when she's getting ready for her spanking by a stranger or in public.

The girl doesn't like to talk about her nudity even after she's surmounted the shame of staying pantyless or bottomless while in both cases such girl in public opinion is simply a girl of easy virtue. On the other hand wearing no panties under the skirt or under the dress is very convenient if the girl undergoes the training or is spanked more than twice a week. Someone has to say that and this someone can't be a spanker man but another experienced girl.

The know-how is that panties on the frequently thrashed bottom involve an itching. It's not the pain but very unpleasant feeling anyway. Another moment is that the spanker wants the girl to have her panties around her knees. Not around her ankles and not off but around the knees while in this case the girl sees her panties all the time before the spanking what makes her feel the shame more, this time the shame of getting spanked. The spanking itself is more than enough for me so when the spanker tells me to pull panties down to my knees I simply say "Sorry, I've no panties". I can't say I prefer stockins and garter belt instead of pantyhose, but for spanking I put on stockings and no panties. Some girls are worrying to show their nudity in public while without panties but I think the girl shows only what she's ready to show. When the wind raises the skirt showing the bottom who can say exactly is that bottom bare or in thong.

The girl has to trust in her spanker without reservation. It may seem the same as obey him, but the trust is more positive and thus more efficient. When the spanker tells the girl to prepare for her spanking somewhere in the strange place some girls are begging for mercy or for delay or for the spanking not over the bare. I know that all beggings may result just in a huff of the spanker and who needs the shirty spanker. If the girl is experienced in staying bottomless she experiences less embarrassment when preparing for her spanking even in public. I believe all my thrashings in front of unsuspected witnesses have been deserved or they have been necessary for a teamwork.

Another negative feeling dealing with the shame of nudity is a corner time before and after the spanking. The nudity isn't obligatory when standing in the corner but the shame of nudity may become prevailing thus drowning out the shame of getting spanked. I've suffered such shame when I've moved to my aunt's home and her fifteen years old son has starred at my patterned bottom after the first strapping. I don't know what feel other girls but my shame has been so great that I can't remember the pain or what I've been spanked for. To make the spanking effective I've had to train myself to stay bottomless at aunt's home and later at my parents' home. The first few times are very terrible but it's the only way to make the spanking work.

P.S. I'm very sorry but I don't know how to put photos in my posts still.
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Deputy spanker (2)

2010-12-12T04:59:00.000-08:00

The therapy spanking after intense spanking for three-four monthes grows into weekly maintenance therapy or into weekly maintenance discipline. There is no difference how is the spanking named while the result is the same.

The training spanking is over in two or three monthes and there is no need for further spanking. This time is enough for some ralatives or friends of the girl to get to know about her spanking and about her attitude towards it (acceptance). The girl's acceptance of the training is a trump card when discussing her discipline after the training is finished. On the other hand the girl understands for herself that if the spanking is effective for one her habit it will be effective for another too. So there are no cons usually and regular disciplinary spanking starts very shortly after the training is finished if only someone in the girl's environment expresses the will to discipline the girl.

The punishment is always the negative experience. The girl may agree that it's deserved but it stays negative anyway. The punishment works cause it's negative nature. This is the first and probably the main reason why spanked girls don't like to speak up about their punishments. The maintenance discipline isn't the punishment for some real offences so it's not so negative as the punishment and I've noticed girls prefer to chat about it more easily.

Another holdout to put out the girl's spanking experiences baldly deals with nowadays. It's a very common practice to get a regular spanking fifty or even thirty years ago. Major changes in social mind have converted a loving discipline into violence in the family thus eliminating the spanking from the everyday life. Millions of girls and women live without knowing what the spanking is. People just know that it's a violence, an extreme negative. When the girl realises one day that the spanking is good for her she can't confess this because of public opinion. Almost all Witol's girls have been spanked by him for the first time in their life. These girls were sure the spanking deals with a whip, dungeon, chains etc. before they have made the acquaintance of Witol. Courtesy, delicacy and respect are prerequisites for effective spanking. Those three provisions make the girls come back after their first spanking (sometimes a very hard one). Such acceptance of the spanking remains behind the closed doors anyway while the outer world remains with it's opinion about spanking as extreme violence.

The spanked girl never talks about her spanking without the answers to two very important questions: "Why me?" and "Why the spanking?". For me personaly these questions have never been a problem because of conventionalities and I've never asked them. My mom and her sisters (my aunts) have been spanked without lurking so the spanking of girls and young women for me is a part of family life. The adults have been spanked not the same way as kids and I've got it to know in my adolescence. But it's a routine spanking, nothing very special. The situation is flat another in nowadays and these two questions become very important. These are two parts of one question actualy and answer thus is very simple: "Cause it works for you". This simple answer doesn't solves an uncertainty but it's a solid base for further inferences.

When talking about therapy spanking the problem of the spanking reason is almost solved by the magic word "therapy". The training and the disciplinary spanking is different throughout. The girl has to confess to herself she can't solve her own problems alone without a help from the outside. The fact that the help is the spanking is just a trifle. I've gone through this when after graduating a school and leaving parents home I as a second year university student suddenly have realised that I need help in my studies. I've been in need of help to screw myself up to prepare for exams. I've been thinking about the pep pills or something else to stimulate my brain and memory. I've had recurrence to my aunt and she's offered me a strapping. My expectancy to live without the spanking has been ruined after I've moved from the campus to my aunt's home. I've felt inadequate and diminished. To talk with someone about my feelings in that days? Not for anything! The only person I can confess has been my aunt I know she has been spanked once a week though she's thirty seven at that time.

The decision to get the spanking is made by freewill and this makes the public talk about the spanking more complicated as the forced spanking. When the spanking is forced against the own will the girl feels like others just the circumstances are those that someone spanks her when she is a normal girl like all other girls.
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Deputy spanker (1)

2010-12-10T05:19:00.000-08:00

I substitute for Witol this and may be the next month not only in his spanking duties but also as a master of this blog. So it's my fault the blog is inactive for so long period of time. Witol has had an idea the girs will write down their memories and this will keep the blog alive. But the girls don't like to write and I know why.

The spanking is a negative experience still and all. The girl can accept it, she can understand she needs it and even she can experience the overall positive effect of spanking. But anyway the spanking is negative while it's efficiency is based on it's forbidding stuff.

When the girl decides to accept the training or the therapy spanking she knows what follows though the first time is shocking anyway. Pulling her panties down or taking them off is the first and most disgraceful thing before she gets the first hit. Spanking over the bare bottom is in the social mind the last measure for very or almost beyond hope naughty girl. The girl needs to give reasons for her spanking in the case somebody else except the spanker would get to know her new activity. The girl is under a delusion she can keep her spanking in secret. It's inpossible.

Her boyfrien or husband, sibling, roommate and parents get to know about her spanking in less than one or two first monthes. It's the second great shock for the girl. She has to explain why she needs her bottom to be spanked. Why exactly the spanking and not other way of therapy or training. The girl and her folks have develop an awareness of exceptional efficiency and utility of the spanking.

The third natural step is bringing the spanking from the therapist office to the girl's home. The spanking at home may seem to be less shameful and more convenient but it's so on the first sight only. The girl gets the spanking in the less private environment when compared to the therapist office. Neighbours, folks and friends get to know the girl is spanked on regular basis very shortly.

On the other hand the spanking at home has another very sufficient attribute. It transforms very shortly into the disiplinary spanking. The therapic effect of the spanking is too complicate and not acceptable explanation for most people. The words that the girl needs the spanking may signify both the therapy and the discipline. The last one is more acceptable for most people. Try to imagine at this point the self-sufficient and self-determined young woman that is forced to take her panties off barring her sacred part of body and then getting her bottom blisterred until she loses the control and begs for mercy while she has done nothing to beg for mercy.

The therapic spanking transforms into the disciplinary maintenance spanking at home less than in one month usually. The disciplinary spanking is brand new thing when compared to a therapic spanking while there are such moments as penalties during the spanking, standing in the corner, exposing the spanked bottom for other people, disciplinary book or calendar and some other moments specific for each family.

The girl is experiencing the shame and disgrace but she feels pretty well and understands the spanking is efficient as the therapic treatment anyway. She keeps this knowledge for herself while the public declaration of the spanking efficiency leads usually to the harder and more frequent spanking. The girl speaks up with her therapist and with other girls sufferring the same fate.

The hard and frequent spanking makes the girl to feel good while this spanking is really very negative experience in fact. She understand she needs the spanking and she is afraid to get more than it's necessary since she accepts penalties, corner time and empty spanking as a assurance she'll get that spanking in the future.

The described scenario is the most optimistic for the girl after she takes a decision regarding the therapy spanking. The most common is the deplorable scenario when someone in the girl's family goes at her spanking with spirit but everything fizzles out in one or two monthes. One has keep in mind that the spanking is the negative experience for the spanked girl usually no matter accepts she it or no. As a conclusion of this the girl needs an extreme effort of will to ask someone for spanking. She may ask once or twice but not always when the time for her spanking comes.
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Make your spanking work

2010-11-19T08:51:00.000-08:00

Something special for every girl

Found on Spanked by Sister-In-Law

I've assumed in previous posts that the spanking leads to the set goals without a problem. Though it happens very often that the goal of the spanking isn't achieved no matter what kind of spanking (discipline or therapy) is applied. So you need something extra to make the spanking work for the particular girl. What kind of special technique is needed you've to decide yourself while some girls need more pain others need more shame and some of them need a little more fear.


Found on Lupus Spanking

It may seem that simply the harder spanking may be the universal solution for inproper discipline and not efficient therapy. This ir right but there some other ways to make the spanking work and I use the harder spanking as the dernier resort after all other techniques are insuficient. On the other hand I think the spanking should be corelated to the girls feeling or to her behaviour and extreme spanking doesn't conform this rule.


Found on Pain Toy

When talking about an extra pain I offer the not butts spanking in the first place usually. The spanker may use the common spanking implement for spanking legs, their back or front sides, or as the special approach the inner side of thighs. The skin on legs is more delicate than it's on butts and the strokes of the same forxe will produce much more pain and longer lasting welts.


Found on Real Spanking

Switching from the usual spanking implement to a harder one seems to be the softer way to make the spanking harder. It hurts more but it results in deeper and longer lasting bruises. I use switching from the belt to the cane for several treatments or just for a single spanking usually.


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Making the treatment more shameful results in higher spanking efficiency often. This is true not only for the discipline but for therapy too if the shame doesn't becomes a obsession. The first thing making the girl to feel the shame is making her to undress waist down not only for the spanking but for some longer period of time sometimes for the whole punishment day. There are some girls that pay no special attention to their nudity especially when they are at home alone or when this approach is used often. Anyway some few first times of making her undress waist down are highly efficient.


Found on Girls boarding school

A little more shamefull is not the simply staying bottomless but waiting for her spanking bottomless similiar to the standing in the corner. It may be turned into the corner time or into the kneeling in the corner and waiting for the upcoming spanking.


Found on Family Spanking

The witnessed spanking is probably the most efficient technique making the spanking more shameful. There is no matter who is the bystander.

Making the spanking open to public is probably the last thing the spanker would make trying to make the spanking more shameful. Anyway it's the only way to make the spanking really shameful for some girls.

Found on HD Spank

What way to use? What way would be the most efficient? Simply listen what the girl says during and after the spanking. They usually say what is most terrible in the spanking for them and the spanker has simply give his attention to the words of the girl.
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Symmetric spanking marks

2010-11-15T06:44:00.000-08:00

Not only aesthetics

Found on Spanking Online

Spanking marks are not only very important shame element they also show the the mastery of spanking technique. On the other hand they rule the way of forthcoming spanking.


Found on Lupus Spanking

Hard spanking may result in peculiar marks. When this spanking isn't the part of the regular consequent discipline or therapy process no one pay a special attention to the promiscuity of spanking marks.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies

For weekly or more frequent spanking asymmetric marks are simply beyond the pale. The girl's right butt is usually spanked more by unskilful right handed spanker (or left butt - by left handed spanker eventually). Even when no marks are visible to the next spanking the regular overdosage over one butt leads to the enduring reluctant sores and as the result to interruption or even termination of discipline or therapy.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies

So what's a solution? Practice makes perfect. The spanking has to be symmetric starting with a warm-up. It's very simply. Spank one butt then another just from one side and don't try to cover both butts at once. The result has to be a solid rosy colour of both butts.


Found on Real Spanking	Found on HD Spank

For better result an unexpirienced spanker has to lay the girl down having an access to her bottom both from left and right sides. When the girl lays straight face down there is no different from what side is the spanker so switching sides not a hand results in even spanking marks.


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After main spanker's hand is skilled perfectly there is a time to try another hand. There are some difficulties sure so the practice is very important. The freewill girl would be of assistance for the spanker.


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It's very important to start the drills for the another hand with light implements even with the girl's leave. It may seem a pushover though the unskilled hand is simply unamenable usually and there is a long way to the two handed mastership.

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Motivation spanking

2010-11-05T09:33:00.000-07:00

Found on Spanking Server

It's an advanced high-end technique. The motivation spanking is misconceived sometimes as a kind of empty spanking. The empty spanking is similar to motivation one sure but there are some underlying differences.
1. The empty spanking is spanning only very short period of time usually no more than a week while motivation spanking covers several monthes up to one year (or even more).
2. The empty spanking is reflection of possible offences during the mentioned period of time while motivation spanking deals with a raised goal and the time needed for achievement of this goal.
3. The empty spanking is ranked very clear usually and it's intensity doesn't exceed twenty cane strokes usually while motivation spanking is rather comparable with a punishment day and totals in one husndred or more cane strokes.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies

Another difference to other spanking techniques is that motivation spanking is supposed to be freewill. If the girl refuses to take the motivation spanking it would be pointless to motivate the girl this way. Voluntary basis causes that grown-up girls and mature ladies take the motivation spanking. It's an event so girls and their spankers prepare theirselves for it.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies	Found on Spank Christina

The girl discusses the cane or other implement for her spanking at ease what's caused by her freewill choice. Another moment making the motivation spanking the very special technique is possibility by one or more other girls to share the intended spanking. Taking the part of appointed spanking is acceptable for empty spanking too. Anyway the girls share the possible punishment when sharing the empty spanking and the shared part of the empty spanking is five to ten cane strokes while the shared part can reach fifty or even more cane strokes when talking about motivation spanking.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies	Found on Calstar Spanking

The girl isn't spanked at one go what makes the motivation spanking similiar to the punishment day and makes the day of the motivation the remarkable event.


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies	Found on Young wife

Hugs and kisses are very common during the motivation spanking. Spanking itself is very sensual and the longlasting intense motivation one is even more sensual. Probably the sensuality of this spanking emboldens some girls to share it after the first or second caning.

Found on Lupus Spanking

The girl's bottom is covered with dark stripes and welts usually after the motivation. Most girls cry and squeal during the spanking but the overall atmosphere is exalted.

Found on Spanked Mature Ladies

I don't know the girl that's unhappy with her choice to take the motivation spanking or just share the part of it.
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Spanking atmosphere

2010-11-01T04:00:00.000-07:00

Goodwill vs. Malice

Found on HD Spank

There are some stress elements needed for a successful spanking treatment though the ruling feel has to be well-meant. The girl feels the shame, the pain and many more negative senses but self-determined girl is well-disposed to her spanking anyway.


Found on Punished Wife	Found on Family Spanking

When the spanker takes it easy starting from the talk with the girl everything goes smoothly. The girl pulls her panties down without a struggle and the discussion is constructive and passes without ruffle or excitement.


Found on Punished Wife

The initial warm-up spanking is very important. The spanker calms the girl down when he warmes the girl's bottom gently without unneeded sharp strokes.


Found on Spanking Online

Anyway malice seems to be the only feeling helping the spanker to hurt the girl he loves. The spanker's situation seems to be invidious. Roughness and rudeness make the spanker to see the girl full of vices. The girl feels the hostility to the spanker not to her bad manners too. This is dead-end way.


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Both the spanker and the girl need to personalize the girl's bad manners and habits and seek to reform them. The teamwork is more efficient. The obligation falls on the spanker foremost while the girl is reliant on him. One spanker's hand shows the girl a support while another makes her squeal in pain.


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When suited terms have steadied the spanking becomes most effective no matter what the goal is set. Well wishing spanker can spank any girls and the suitably minded girl may accept the spanking from any other spanking with no problems.
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Spanking Positions - Legs-up

2010-10-29T04:00:00.000-07:00


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The girl raises her legs up while lying on the back. Such a simple move brings into this special position.


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The girl in this position presents for spanking lower third of her butts and upper part of her thighs with a clear visible vagina in the middle of this continuous spanking area. The skin is tensioned more than at usual bent-over positions so the spanker needs less force for stinging result. Visually soft strapping results in moderate pain while the use of the light cane brings almost any girl to tears.


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This position isn't comfortable for the girl especially during harder punishment spanking. When two girls are spanked simultaneously one girl may help keep legs up of other girl and after simply change places.


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The assistance for this kind of spanking is desirable. The assistant may not only keep the girl in the desired position but also change it slightly when needed. Straightening the legs results in tighter skin and eventually in more sting. Spreading the legs just a little opens the area around the vagina.


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Almost all girls even those experienced in spanking when put in this position are shocked after the fist hit. They realise that their fanny is exposed in full and can't be covered, they feel the sting that is never felt before.
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Discipline Spanking (2)

2010-10-27T04:42:00.000-07:00

Evolution

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No matter what kind of spanking is growing into disciplinary treatment the girl intuits that it's the punishment.

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The girls after the training or after the therapy have the fear to undress waist down gone by. Their experience in getting spanked is taken for their freewill to get spanked by their spankers and future disciplinarians.


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The first sort of the punishment in the discipline's evolution is the spanking at very instant exactly in the place where the girl has made her offence. An inexperienced disciplinarians spank the girls in a fit of spleen thus the punishment isn't adequate to the offence and it can't be effective and didactic.


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The next step in discipline evolution is the punishment same day at home. The girl is positioned the way more suitable for spanking and the spanking itself is already measured sometimes and more adequate to the offence made. Spanking at home has evene more benefits. The disciplinarian has enough time as well as the place is suited for the discussion about the offence and about the deserved punishment. The girl can stand in the corner and muse over her behaviour waiting for the upcoming spanking. The spanking may be performed with a proper strap or cane not with the first long thing that has come to hand. The girl stands in the corner afterwards and takes her punishment in. Corner time may be shameful for any girl even for the girl that has no fear to stay bottomless when needed while standing in the corner messages about the punishment.


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Spanking at home not only gives more time for the girl to muse over her behaviour and payment but also for the disciplinarian to separate offences and corresponding treatments out according to their severity varying the position, implement, hardness etc.


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The same day spankings may happen few times a week especially after some rules of behaviour for the girl are set and there are many minor offences included. For the punishment to be really effective it can't be performed in a haste. The time is needed to discuss the girl's offences and for her standing in the corner and waiting for the spanking. Then the spanking has to be performed with very clear every hit letting the girl to take the pain in full. The time is needed for the afterwards corner time to let the girl to muse her punishment over once again. If the disciplinarian is really concerned about improvemnt of the girl's manners he comes to regular scheduled accumulative spankings once or twice a week. Regular scheduled accumulative spankings allow include such improvements as diary and wall-calendar making the discipline open for everyone in the houshold.

It takes no more than one year usually for the discipline to evolve to regular treatment with the fixed part of maintenance spanking. It's a long time so I try to explain the ways of proper discipline for the girl and her spankers before the training or therapy is grown into the discipline.
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Discipline Spanking (1)

2010-10-25T06:13:00.000-07:00

Beginning

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The spanking isn't definitely a discipline. The disciplinary spanking is rather very seldom in nowadays. Discipline of young ladies isn't just follow-up of their domestic discipline anymore. Discipline especially the spanking discipline isn't obligatory and a lot of people grow up without it. On the other hand the sapnking doesn't warrant a prosperity. However the spanking can be very helpful for solving some problems and for achieving some goals.


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The only sort of spanking with some touch of discipline I offer for some girls is the training. With very clear start as well as very clear termination after achievement of intended goal the training may grow into discipline only when it's performed by parents or after the girl accepts the spanking as the way to solve some more her imperfections. It will be observed that training is meant for young girls (17-26 y.o.) as a rule and they are in subjection to their parents and mentors still. The main peculiarity of training is it's suitability to solve just one very clear and well rateable habit. Dealing with more imperfections or with habits that can't be rated clear the training grows into ordinary disciplinary treatment. I try to make training not a part of family life thus ensuring it's success. After the training is finished successfully the girl and her mentors have right to proceed with discipline at their discretion.


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The therapy spanking is offered more often than training. This spanking is pure non punitive and it's meant for 24 y.o. girls and elder ladies. Unfortunately this kind of spanking outwardly is very similiar to corporal punishment. It's very hard and frequent at initial stages and grows into weekly moderate treatments later. Elements of shame, afterwards rest similiar to the corner time, possible tears and instinctive begging for mercy make this spanking almost the same as disciplinary one. On the other hand due to it's hardness it is performed at home usually and as a consequence by someone from the household: parents, husband, boyfriend, roommate, sibling etc.


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Therapy spanking is long-lasting up to one year and there is a need to repeat it again very often so some people apply the disciplinary elements just in excuse of this spanking.

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Most girls go at therapy spanking with spirit in the begining while later they lower their panties and get into position under constraint only. Acting this way they make their spankers to get into disciplinarians.


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The next step in therapy development into discipline is applying penalties during spanking. Thus the girl's palm is spanked for struggle or the count of hits is doubled or trippled as a penalty for skipping the scheduled treatment.


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The last step in growing the therapy into discipline is the corner time instead of the rest after the spanking is complete.

The discipline as a primary treatment I offer only for the girls I know for a long time after I ensure the spanking would be really helpful for them.
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Shared Spanking

2010-10-22T05:52:00.000-07:00

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When girls are spanked simultaneously there is a good occasion to evaluate and deliver the part of shared spanking. I separate out shared spankings according to the girl's interest and implication.

1. All fellow offenders get the extra shared part of the spanking.
2. The girl in charge gets additional spanking equal (or appointed) to one delivered to the girl under her control.
3. The girl assummes the part of forthcoming responsibility of another girl and gets an adequate part of the emty (or motivatonal) spanking.


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Punishment for participating in the offence is the most common situation for shared spanking. I assume always that offending in the pair is the bigger offence than doing it alone and for common action the girls get what they deserve for the same offence plus some extra portion of spanking. I give 1/2 of the appointed punishment if there are two girls, 2/3 - three girls, 3/4 - four girls etc. Or, what is the simpliest way, simply double the punishment for that offence.


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Another situation of shared spanking is the disciplined caretaker. The caretaker have the right to discipline the younger girl for getting some specific result. If the required standard isn't reached the girl gets the spanking sure. The caretaker is responsible for this result too so it would be fair giving her the same spanking. This method helps both girls to work as a team.


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The caretaker's punishment depend's on the responsibility level. When the girl in charge is responsible only for some part of the education she can't be punished for overall poor results.


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The last situation when the spanking could be shared between several girls is when the girl on the ouside volunteers to take the part of the empty spanking or the part of the motivation. There are two stringent conditions: the volunteer has to live or stay together with the spanked girl and the volunteer gets usually no empty spanking or motivation. This is the situation when the shared part is subtracted from the main spanking and delivered to the volunteer lady friend.
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Simultaneous Spanking

2010-10-21T06:12:00.000-07:00

Found on Girls Boarding School

Two or even three girls of similar age at home isn't the rarity. What is the fair play when talking about need to spank one of them. The therapy spanking and training don't count while each of them is intended to be strictly individual treatment. Though it will be observed that very often both therapy spanking and training grow into disciplinary spankings. It would be pure iniquity when one girl is disciplined and another of similar age or even much younger not disciplined. When therapy spanking is set precedent for disciplinary treatment it can't be tied in only with the already spanked girl while it's a case for spanking other girls too. Disciplinary agreement stays individual in any case except that when one girl is disciplined other girls have be disciplined too.

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Are there two or three girls at home they might be disciplined each one separately or all together simultaneously. Individual discipline treatment is reasonable when age difference is more than just few years or when the girls have opposite interests. Otherwise the simultaneous discipline is more than welcome.

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One will find benefits of simultaneous discipline just after the girls pull their panties down. The girls with common interests and spending much time together may reveal some offences of each other during discussion and this makes the discipline more complete and perfect. When the spanker makes the discussion a real teamwork it facilitates finding the real reason of some offences. It may be not very important for that particular spanking but it's significant for improvement of the girl's behaviour and manners.

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Each girl may be charged to perform some not very important parts of spanking. When warm-up is common in spanking practice it has to be delivered by another girl not by the spanker. It's a trick helping the girls become active participants of their discipline while slapping each other.

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The girl being not spanked at the moment may be very useful helping another girl to stay in position especially when hard strokes are delivered.

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Some spankers want the girl not spanked at the moment to stand or kneel facing the wall and wait for her turn. In my opinion the not spanked girl watching other girl getting her bottom thrashed and especially moment of impact is much better approach. The girl participating in the discipline isn't an indifferent ouside observer. She conforms every hit and every quiver of flesh to herself. She sees herself getting spanked while starring at the another girl's bottom.

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Maintenance spanking

2010-10-18T04:03:00.000-07:00

Another way to discipline

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When the disciplinarian makes a decision the punishment works well just for once there is no way back and the girl has to be punished for any and every offence as designated in the disciplinary agreement.


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The basic way to dicipline the girl is her punishment at the very instant of her misbehaviour or what's almost the same the spanking delivered the same day. Another way is accumulative punishment one day a week (or two times a week sometimes). Accumulative punishment helps the girl to get more resposible not only for her behaviour but for marking her offences in her diary for subsequent payment. Accumulative punishment has another very significant advantage: both the disciplinarian and the girl can follow variation of the spanking intension while the equal time intervals of every spanking makes them comparable.

I have noticed a repeated variations of spanking intense almost for all girls that have been punished once a week. Such variation is explicable very simply. The girl pulls her manner up after one or two more violent spankings. The result is her good behaviour and almost no need of punishment as expected. The girl works laid-back later and makes some offences resulting in some harsh punisment again.


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So what is the solution? I guess and most disciplinarians will agree probably that the best solution is the maintenanance spanking. For a start one has to include a fixed part of spanking into the weekly accumulative punishment. I suggest to deliver this part at the beginning of the punishment followed by the spanking for any other offence. The strength of the maintenance spanking is selected so that it's one third of whole spanking on the average. E.g. when the girl is spanked with the belt and she gets 30 up to 100 strokes usually, the fixed maintenance part is 40 hits. Such strapping is hard but it still lets the disciplianrian to deliver another 100 strokes when needed. On the other hand when no additional punishment is needed the girl gets the spanking helping her not to loosen.


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It's very important to select the maintenance spanking properly for every girl.


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I try to make the maintenance part of punishment slightly different than another portion of spanking usually. There is the special cane or the special strap exclusively for maintenance spanking. I want the girl to feel the difference of maintenance and punitive spanking while the goal of the fisxed part of discipline is to make regular spankings exclusively maintenance ones. The girl's manners become far better than previously in four to six monthes usually after the fixed part of discipline has been added. Such mend of girl's behaviour lets to review the discipline agreement and give the girl more swing.

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The maintenance spanking softens in the course of time. The stinging cane is changed to the softer strap or belt and the count of hits is reduced significantly. The girl understands and accepts the necessity of maintenance spanking usually especially when it's not too hard.
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Consensus

2010-10-15T07:14:00.000-07:00

Found on Real Life Spanking

It's hard to imagine the spanking to take place without some prior agreement or consensus with the girl to be spanked. There is no matter what kind of spanking has to be carried out: punishment, training, motivation, therapy or relaxing.


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Therapy and maintenance spankings are performed on regular basis at the predetermined time. It's a very simple spanking case: the girl prepares herself for the spanking without demur and put-off otherwise some penalties may be applied according to the consensus. The non-disciplinary teherapy spanking may have some elements of discipline while the girl has to be strongly self-determined for upcoming pain. It's rather just a pursuit not the reality and various penalties have to be provided to make the girl behave properly before and during the spanking.


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When talking about punishment spanking the rules have to be set even more clear while the girls have understand and perceive why the spanking is exactly so hard and performed exactly in this way and what's very important executed exactly at this time. When setting the rules and payment for breaking them as more details as possible have to be covered. That include strength, implement, position, number of hits, time of the punishment, possibility delay the spanking, other participants, corner time, penalties for interruption the spanking and penalties for misbehaving during spanking.

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The training spanking is unproblem usually due to it's simplicity though it's exceptional soreness.

Found on Spanked Cutie

When rules are set and discussed herefore even very hard and frequent spankings pass smoothly.
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Punishment Spanking

2010-10-05T08:06:00.000-07:00


Found on Spanked Mature Ladies

There is a lot of opponents of corporal punishment anyway it's very simple yet exclusively effective component of discipline. It's no matter how old the girl is or maybe she's a lady already the punishment remains one of the most appropriate responses to the girl's misbehaviour in any case.


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The girl's countercheck against the corporal punishment is supposed so the reasons for spanking have to be substantiated. The punishment is senseless when the girl doesn't see it's reason or doesn't agree with the disciplinarian's arguments.


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Young ladies are punished more often than mature ones anyway there is no age limit for corporal punishment spanking.


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The spanker may divide the punishment into separate parts if he wants to put stress on every misbehaviour episode. Such approach is very helpful for the girl in taking in the punishment.


Found on Disciplined Daughters

When the girl is spanked frequently and in proper way she comes necessarily to understanding of what is wrong and what is right. There comes a time when the girl is waiting for her punishment already in position without any allusion or inducement from the disciplinarian's side. It's a great moment showing it's a time to change the discipline method and the goal of the spanking. Punitive spanking isn't the only recipe for discipline.

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The last thing. Don't forget that the remission is a must in any punishment.
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Relaxation Spanking

2010-10-03T11:34:00.000-07:00

Sunday eve is the best time for relaxing slaps after the week filled with duties and chores then the weekend with it's revels.


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Many people even those called vanilla agree to the relaxing pleasure of mensural light slaps over bare bottom however they are self-conscious about it.


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I don't want explore reasons of relaxing during the slapping. The most of predications may be assumed as the mere assertions cause based on value judgement. The slapping leads to relax always when the precondition and attitude is nothing about punishment.


Found on Firm Hand Spanking

Warm-ups and even disciplinary slappings over the knee become relaxing sometimes.
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Flushed with shame

2010-09-30T05:14:00.000-07:00

Another Point of View

The story isn't about I've tried to lose my weight, not about my pursuances and attempts. The fact is that at my roommate's suggestion I've paid a visit to Witol's office. I've expected a miracle cure or a magic herb. You may foresee what prescription I've got.

Found on Young wife

To bare myself below the waist in front of the strange man? Beauty demands sacrifice. With a hand over my pussy I've been sure covering my fanny.


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And what about bottom? I've expected I show nothing special standing on all four or bending over the table. What one can see, just the same bottom I show for everyone on the beach while wearing thong.


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I just wouldn't make myself to keep my hands in front of me not on my bottom after the spanking. The pain has been worse than the shame and I've been sure it's the only really shamefull moment in my training.


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I'm dutiful girl, really. I've come to Witol's office in the morning not within the given time cause of contretemps. It has been the first time me seeing another girl getting the cane. I've been shocked. The view of girl's bottom has given me quite a turn. Don’t imagine cane marks are something new for me. Not this but the girl's pussy exposed in full has shocked me so much. I've realized suddenly my pussy being exposed the same way or even more during every spanking and I've been maidenly trying to cover my crotch.


Found on Young wife

I have no regrets about choosing training by Witol. It's changed my life not only my figure. I know my fanny is exposed almost as at gyno exam when I bend over for the cane but it's just my luck. I simply make no bones about the shame and never cover my pussy again.
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Scheduled discipline vs. Quick spanking

2010-09-29T07:13:00.000-07:00

Another Point of View (Lenka)


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I've never liked the immediate spanking. Starting with slaps over my skirt under his arm it has ending with something more strong over bare and to cap the misery I've been told "Remind me at home to talk about it more seriously".


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I've been spanked once a week previously by mom and it has been hard and seriously more than enough. Things change. The weekly Saturday morning discipline is actual yet but same day correction happens very often.


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I don't know how but I have change something while I can't get strapping and caning so often. I'm turning pages of my diary and I see no more than sixty belt strokes a week and few times the cane some monthes ago. Saturday discipline is the same as previously now but two, three or four times a week I'm corrected for exceptional faults. I'm not an angel sure. May be I'm impish and stupid and deserve what I get but it hurts so much. I've been punished two times this week already each time fourty belt strokes. I'm in anticipation of getting punished today too (I've chated by phone at work and someone may sneak on me so I'll better own myself for correction).

It lasts two monthes such frequent spanking and I'm sick for weekend discipline instead of those spankings under the necessity. I have to go now. I want him to find me kneeling in the corner, maybe it makes him to be not so merciless.

Scheduled discipline vs. Quick spanking

2010-09-28T05:20:00.000-07:00

Another Point of View

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What it is quick discipline? The same day or immediatelly?


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The immediate spanking hasn't been routine even years ago. To get over someone's knees has been more simple than now sure anyway I can't say it has happened very often in my life. Since I've been a young lady already I can't remember what I've been spanked for. I remember just a shock of my panties pulled down in front of someone I've never planed to be spanked or bared. The shock is probably the most common feeling when the girl's panties are pulled down without any notice. After the shock is gone the shame remains as a prevailing feeling. I can't say something about the pain while I don't remember it. My only wish has been to disappear without leaving a trace.


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Any immediate spanking is much more shamefull than any scheduled discipline even when someone is witnessing it. When the disciplinarian anounces that there is no time to lose I know what to do next. I have to overstep my shame and take my panties off. I can do nothing sure but it leads to even more shamefull discipline usually.
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Scheduled discipline vs. Quick spanking

2010-09-24T07:14:00.000-07:00

Found on Girls Boarding School

A couple of hours a week are spared for the girl's discipline. This way is ordinary and common. And it's very effective too. The girl takes the discipline in very well while she muses her behaviour and the payment before and after the spanking.


Found on Disciplined Daughters

Since the spanking may be exclusivelly painful it isn't shocking while the girl knows what to expect and why the spanking is so hard.


Found on Girls Boarding School

Such approaches as spanking girl's palm before and standing in the corner after improve the effectiveness of measured discipline.

Everything mentioned above is known for years, so why I'm talking about this again? In opinion of most unexperienced disciplinarians and spankers the most effective way to discipline the girl is to spank her at very instance she has been struck misbehaving.


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A quick spanking is right in first sight only. Spanking the girl at very instance of her misbehaviour leads to lose of confidence. Spanking isn't so common as years ago so both the disciplinarian and the girl try to keep the discipline in private.


Found on Outdoor Spanking

When the girl and her disciplinarian are outdoors alone or in company of people for whom their discipline isn't a secret it's probably the only situation when the quick spanking is possible.

Quick spanking can't be applied as a main disciplinary approach since most girls associate the pain and sham not with hteir own misbehaviour but with the disciplinarian's personality. As a result the girl is trying not to change herself but avoid the disciplinarian's attention.
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Trends of feelings before and after the Spanking

2010-09-19T06:39:00.000-07:00

The girl's physical and emotional feelings vary in time and are mediated by the moment before and after the spanking. I've tried to describe and figure emotional (fear, shame, infamy) and physical (sting, pain, tingle, itch) feelings.

It should be noted that emotional feelings hold sway before the spanking while physical ones - after spanking. This is true for scheduled spankings only. There is no difference what time remains to the planned spanking the emotional feelings become sensible only two days before. The infamy (or a kind of disgrace or maybe social shame) and the fear are dominating. The shame becomes considerable only the same day few hours before the spanking.

The sting as a sort of the pain is specific to spanking process and in some cases lasts an hour or more after the spanking is completed. The dull pain lasts from one hour to three days (in most cases to the next day after the spanking) depending on the intensity of the spanking. The tingle remains as the prevailing physical feeling for up to three days after the spanking. The pain and the tingle become more perceptible when touching, rubbing, slapping etc. the spanked areas.

Pre- and post-spanking feelings of weekly treatments
Red - physical feelings, blue - emotional ones

It may seem that the spanking has to to be moderate to firm (60-100 strokes with the belt) to make the girl bother one week when talking about weekly regular spankings. Though one may include emotional pre-spanking feelings bothering the girl and then the routine weekly spanking will be no more than 60 belt strokes. Again, when talking about regular weekly spanking we have four-five days of post-spanking physical feelings and two-three days of pre-spanking emotional feelings what makes the girl to pay more attention to herself all week.

There are some ways to improve the spanking result without making the spanking harder or without performing it more often.

The first method is reminders of upcoming spanking, first of all verbal reminders starting from second or third day after the spanking. The reminders have to be accompanied by some explanations about hurt, goal, gain or loss. A tick on wall calendar works as reminder too especially when the calendar is in visible place (e.g. in the kitchen) and whole family knows the mean of that tick. It's important not to put many ticks in advance but put the tick day after the spanking in presence of the girl and other family members. These measures put emotional feelings forward up to five or six days before upcoming spanking.

Pre- and post-spanking feelings with reminders
Red - physical feelings, blue - emotional ones

The main benefit of overlapping emotional and physical feelings is considerable improvement of girls behaviour. The reminders are worth while no longer as two monthes since they become ordinary later and don't influence the effectiveness of the spanking.

Pre- and post-spanking feelings with further OTK
Red - physical feelings, blue - emotional ones

Another improvement is applying the OTK slapping (ca. 5 minutes) the first and the second day after the spanking. The slapping works as a confirmation of the last spanking: it increases the level of the pain and the tingle eventually.

Pre- and post-spanking feelings with further OTK and reminders
Red - physical feelings, blue - emotional ones

Reminders and further OTK may be used together giving the capitally good result. These methods are used together for six weeks usually but it's more than enough to progress to maintenance discipline instead of regular punishments.
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Warm-up Spanking: obligatory or optional

2010-09-17T02:20:00.000-07:00

Found on Spanking Online

There is no unanimous opinion regarding the warm-up (a light to moderate slapping with a hand or hairbrush) before moderate and hard spanking. Anyway the prevenient warm-up isn't count as the part of the spanking treatment so some girls (especially inexperienced ones) prefer to get a straping or the caning without a warm-up.


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There are cases when a warm-up is simply impossible or not desirable. When the girl is punished at very instance or there is a lack of time or a it's routine training treatment. Such spankings result in much more long lasting marks, bruises and welts. The moderate caning on photos above results in clear longlasting welts becoming dark-red tramlines ca. 30 minutes later.


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The moderate belting results in very clear marks when it's proceeded without the warm-up in comparison to similiar spanking with some warm-up slapping.


Found on Punished Girls

The differences are much more noticeable in the case of caning. Caning after some warm-up gives a dark patterned butts sure but it's in no comparison to the caning without a warm-up. Some put-up canings are design to be carried without the warm-up this way ensuring a longlasting bruises and as a consequence more shame for the spanked girl. This way is used for empty discipline and especially for motivational spankings usually.


Found on Punished Wife

The warm-up slapping remains effective for 30 minutes or up to 1 hour sometimes. So the girl may be slapped by another spanker and in another location prior to the main spanking. It's the reason why I inspect the girls bottom carefully before each spanking especially when longlasting pain and welts are desirable. When I see the pale bottom presented for the spanking it doesn't mean the girl hasn't got the warm-up slapping prior she has come to me.

Found on Disciplined Daughters

Panties: on, down or off

2010-09-14T06:04:00.000-07:00


Found on Spanked office girls

The most girls prefer to stay in panties during spanking. Panties are a kind of fig-leaf covering their fanny. Inexperienced girls stay in their panties usually after they are told to get into position. Most of them are sure that removing upper clothes is more than enough for spanking. The pain of spanking over panties and on bare actually is almost the same.


Found on Young wife

I have to agree that spanking itself on bare or over panties is shameful. Anyway the girl with her panties around her knees is more sheepish than when her panties are left in place. I think the shame isn't less important thant the pain no matter what kind of spanking is applied. I also think it's very good for spanker to see what he is spanking. It's for girl's own good too.


Found on Family Spanking

I ask the girl to pull her panties down to the knees usually for discussion of forthcoming spanking so she could see them during our talk. The shame is forgotten when panties are left on or removed completelly usually.


Found on Family Spanking

I ask the girl to pull her panties up a little for the spanking what lets me not to exceed the acceptable spanking area. Panties pulled down are working the same way as during the discussion before spanking helping the girl to feel the continous shame every time sh's noticing her panties.

Found on SIT Spanking

Some spankers start the spanking with girl's panties left on and pull them down after few strokes. I guess this is a dishonesty while the girl has been allowed to stay in panties and they are removed when she simply can't resist and demur.
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Another Point of View (APOV)

2010-09-10T04:44:00.000-07:00

I'm describing a lot of spanking moments here while I'm a spanker. I see all spanking related things from my side. I want my spankings to be perfect. I want to get a desired result as soon as possible and with minimal efforts from my side as well as from the side of the girl getting those spankings.

Found on Punished Wife

For most of the girls, especially for inexperienced ones many moments are weird or simply out of line. I can't describe whole process and all details in full while I don't feel what feel the girls. So I need Another Point of View (APOV) for every my article. Maybe there are some moments I don't pay attention at all but deserving a separate description and discussion. There some ladies that are spanked and are spanking other girls at the same time.


Found on Punished Girls

I expect the girls not only post comments like "I hate this" but publish a separate post describing their feelings both physical and psychologic.
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Different ways for the same result

2010-09-06T01:29:00.000-07:00

Found on History of Spanking

I've been spanked for more than thirty years frequently as well as I've spanked others if necessary. Some people ask why this process has to be so complicated since the result of the spanking has to be a girl's sore behind and tears after all.


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The spanking process is sophisticated at first sight only. The spanking may be routine and frequent but anyway it is something exceptional in girl's life. Every spanking has some purpose and some goal so making preparations for it is more than reasoned. Kneeling or simply sitting with bared bottom and waiting for the spanking is a proper way to muse over the upcoming spanking in my cost. Only after I've taken in the reason of my spanking I'm ready for it.

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Every break during my spanking making me to take in the reason of my thrashing is valid while it helps me to realize the primary reason of my spanking.


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The spanking at the very instant without any preparation is used often but it has some failings and the main is the girl associating the spanking not with her offences directly but with the spanker who has noticed those offences. Some girls prefer this way of being disciplined while it's so simple. This way don't requires any efforts from the side of the girl to reflect on her behaviour or to make any conclusions. The ultimate result of this way is the girl repeating the same offences again and again.

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Tools for Spanking (3)

2010-09-02T03:08:00.000-07:00

The Cane

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The cane seems to be the most powerful domestic discipline tool. Any girl starts to tremble with fear everytime the cane is fetched.


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The girls get it right after they see the cane in the disciplinarian's hand. Very hard and very painful thrashing is conditioned by the cane.


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The thorough caning results in clear painful longlasting marks. It's the main failing and the advantage at the same time.


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Longlasting marks don't allow even the moderate spanking in nearest future while it may cause bleeding slashes. Visible marks are unwanted when girl and her spanker care for girl's privacy. It's very good to have sore girls bottom sometimes on the other hand while it ensures a very good result even during hand spanking. As well as clear visible marks are ensuring the shame and as an instance of inescapable discipline for other girls.


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The most common caning scenario is the thorough hard thrashing. The cane is very flexible implement. It may be succesfully used not only over girl's bottom but also over her legs both frontside and inside inclusive. Some spankers use the cane as a penalty for girl's palm spanking.


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The cane is very useful for empty spanking as well as for immediate disciplinary action.


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And the last thing. The cane isn't obviously the biggest and the hardest spanking tool. The short thin cane (the pocket cane) may be used frequently for regular and maintenance discipline even when the girl is over the spankers knees. Such spanking is painful enough to make the thrashing moderate and not very hard although allowing the next treatment the next day.
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Tools for Spanking (2)

2010-08-31T05:00:00.000-07:00

The Hand (5)

The main benefit of the hand spanking is the possibility to apply it very often, sometimes more than once a day.

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One may use the hand spanking as a very frequent mild but shameful enough treatment of the naughty girl especially when the spanking is performed not in the privacy. This way of the discipline is used in the same place where the girl is kneeling or standing after the spanking usually letting other inhabitants of the home to hear and to see the spanking.

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The hand spanking may be non-punitive too. It's ideal for the relaxing slapping. Tenderness, amenity, intimacy and no need of something else makes an OTK hand spanking a desirable relax not only for spanko girls.
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Wishing me a good luck

2010-08-31T02:10:00.000-07:00

The last summer day. Just another tradition for parting wishes while a new year in university starts. How it will be this time? I'm not a girl anymore and I'm ready for anything may happen to me.

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When has it started? Granny has said few years ago almost every co-ed has get a farewell thrashing just befor the new academic year. It's a kind of motivation for the girl before she's leaving parents' home for studies.

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I've been ready to miss this opportunity (what a silly girl!). It hasn't been a real thrashing the first time just a regular strapping but I haven't been happy while I've granted the girl like me don't needs her bottom spanked.


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I've been caned next year. I've realized one week or whatnot later that's really good idea to get a thrashing before all possible offences are made. I've felt the sting for a couple of weeks and dark welts have been visible still for another couple of weeks as a reminder for me. It has been a very first time I've been thankful for my blisterred behind.

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The last summer day, August 31, Tuesday. I'm waiting for my friends to come. I hope they will put deep tramlines across my butts with best wishes for the last year of my studies.
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Tools for Spanking (2)

2010-08-28T05:00:00.000-07:00

The Hand (4)

So when the hand spanking is good and pointful?


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I use the hand spanking as the first treatment for new girls and for girls after the long period without the spanking. I can examine this way the girl's flesh and her rotundity as well as condition of her skin on butts and legs. This lets me to select the proper tools for the later spankings.
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Tools for Spanking (2)

2010-08-26T05:00:00.000-07:00

The Hand (3)

The hand spanking like a spanking with the belt is used as immediate disciplinary treatment for the misbehaving girl.


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The hand spanking can't be a real and complete punishment sure but as a symbol of the upcoming discipline session it is an ideal.

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An immediate spanker's action shows the girl the inevitability of her discipline while the hand spanking itself can't be strong enough for the punishment the girl has deserved.

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Tools for Spanking (2)

2010-08-24T05:00:00.000-07:00

The Hand (2)

The main benefit of the spanking with the hand is the possibility of very intimate positioning of the girl over the spanker's knees (OTK).


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The intimacy of the OTK is most suitable for the immediate family.

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On the other hand such intimacy is most suitable for the first time spankers letting them to feel the girl's body under their hands. This position together with a delicate implement let the new spanker to experiment with hit's strength, direction of the stroke and much more shades of spanking treatment.
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