Instincts at Spanking - important details

There are some important moments not mentioned in the articles about instincts while dealing with them.

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The shame. The diseased shame isn't good while the shame itself is in demand. I ask the girl to keep her panties (or pantyhose) pulled down around her knees so she can see and feel them all the time of discussion before the spanking. This is very important independent of the kind of the spanking. All clothes below the waist may be removed completely when putting the girl into position.

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The fear. The panic fear may result in non-adequate agressive girl's behaviour. The only thing the spanker can do is to stay calm not taking it personally. Such situation is nondurable usually and the girl makes excuses right off.

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The fear may be involved by the last spanking, usually hard or fresh spanking. There is a lot of practices when the next spanking is needed not waiting for the marks and bruises of the last spanking are gone away. The spanking every other day or even daily isn't the rarity. The spanking can't be carried forward while it has to be performed as planned. The only thing the spanker can do is to inspect the girl's bottom and visible marks on it and make a suggestion to change the implement or to spank other suitable areas. Such spanker's attention to the girl's fear settles the girl credibly.

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The struggle. The main way to bypass the struggle of the girl during the hard and longlasting spanking is to keep the left spanker's hand on the girl's back or even take the girl under the arm not waiting an incident to occure. Another solution is to put the girl into a comfortable position. This also helps the girl to take the pain in more accuratelly.

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The spanker has to ask the girl to take off her shoes when the hard painful spanking in non-comfortable position is planned. Accidential movements of the girl's hands and legs are potential when she is spanked hard in unwonted position so her shoes may injure the spanker and the girl herself too.
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Can someone spank me?

Mommy has brought the Saturday morning spanking into practice as a matter of routine at her friend suggestion. The means to queer a weekend really. I can't say it's not a deserved spanking when seen through the perspective of years. Spanking isn't a pleasure still and all and anxiously await for it isn't a pleasure.

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I'm getting my portion of pain and shame every Saturday year by year independent of mommy's presence while spanked by her one or another friend or someone else in her absence. "For your own good", as she says usually or "It's your medicine" as he says sometimes.

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That day has set in. Mommy has passed away leaving me to my fate. Saturday. Morning. I'm ready to take "my medicine". I'm ready as every Saturday before. Is it for my own good? I don't know. But I know I have to get the spanking while I can't start a new week without getting it.

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I'm still waiting for someone to ring at the door. I go to a kitchen and make my breakfast. No-one rings. I desperatelly need someone to come and spank me! No-one comes. I realize for myself I need that spanking.

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Am I a masochist? No, I'm not. I hate the pain. Am I a submissive? No, I'm not. I hate being in subjection to someone. A freedom to choose an implement I'll be spanked with isn't enough for me. Who I am and what I have to do with it? Have I to look for someone to spank me on my own account? I don't raise a question to get the spanking or not. It's clear for me - I have to get it no matter who I am in fact.
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Shaving the privates

Shaving the girl's privates isn't an essential thing when talking about spanking. There are some advantages to have the girls privates shaved nevertheless.

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I go for spread girl's buttocks when she's bent over. This results in more painful hits and more longlasting effect of the spanking. The result is even more better when pubic hair is shaved and area around vulva is smooth. I've noticed more than once that skin after shaving becomes very sensitive even to light hits.

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There are some extremities when shaved privates are very important. This is the spanking an area just beside the vulva or inner side of thighs. These areas are very sensitive even without shaving them but why not to get a better result when it's within touch. This humiliating position and the spanking of areas mentioned is exception to the common spanking. I keep it usually as a penalty. Girls know this and some of them know a taste of it.
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Instincts at Spanking - resolving

It should be noted that most disruptive instincts deal with the girl's nudity. To be more specific they deal with the girl's want of habit to stay undressed waist down.

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There is one possible solution helping the girl to feel more safely after her panties are pulled down or she is undressed waist down. She may hover at home bottomless awhile. The girl can take to be at home bottomless little by little. Other inhabitants of the home will get the feel of her bottomless the same way. On the other hand the girl in t-shirt while being bottomless is dressed more than the girl just in panties while being topless. Some few first times of seeing the girl undressed waist down is a little shocking properly speaking.

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This clue is relevant to a situation when the spanker is outside the home. When the girl is in the habit of staying at home bottomless the process of pulling panties down in front of the stranger for spanking is no more so shocking.

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Not only vanilla girls but some spanko girls too meet the problem of panic fear to pull their panties down in front of the stranger while they don't make a difference between nudity for the spanking and nudity itself. A kind of spanking parties or meetings help the girl get the consciousness of such difference. Meeting of two or more spanker/girl pairs with some spanking involved letting the girls to stay all the time bottomless is very effective measure helping the girls to overcome the fear and the shame.

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There has to be noticed that staying pantyless instead of bottomless may be treated as achievment of some overcome over the shame when it's an evolution in the girl's dress-code. Otherwise it may be a signal of her extra sexuality.
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