Regular Spanking (1)

Tradition

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It's hard to imagine an adult women ordered to pull her panties down for spanking in nowadays. It was hard to imagine fifty years ago too. If the woman isn't spanked for a long period of time the spanking when it is really needed or deserved becomes a kind of extraordinary treatment. One may wonder why the woman does need that spanking while other girls and ladies live without getting spanked at all. My answer is the guilt, the feeling of being guilty. Not the offence or transgression that has to be punished but the guilt. When the girl does something wrong and she does understand that it's wrong she feels the guilt. If the guilt isn't compensated the girl's life becomes frayed, she feels the psychologic discomfort which leads to a depression. I've met a plenty of such women that have the feeling of the uncompensated guilt. The uncompensated guilt has a tendency to grow up.

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Compensation of the girl's guilt is just the practical side of the more basic traditional regular spanking. It's traditional because it has been settled almost two hundreds years ago while it's elements may be observed in ancient times already. The families that are successors of this patriarchal tradition introduce grown up girls into the regular spanking after they are turned to fourteen up to sixteen years, i.e. after they become maidens.

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Contrary to popular belief the traditional regular spanking isn't a brutal strict discipline for every and any trifle rather the manifestation of the girl's femininity. Some elements of discipline are present sure and the hardness of the spanking depends on the girl's behaviour but the spanking is more likely the motivational maintenance discipline and not the punishment for the transgressions done already. I come of such a traditional family and know some other similiar families so my knowledge is practical. Regular spanking gives the opportunity to resolve uncompensated guilts because the discussion of the upcoming spanking is custom with the girl or woman and her spanker.

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Musing befor the spanking and contemplation after it gives the girl an opportunity to survey the whole week (when the spanking is weekly). The survey, analysis and conclusions are efficient for every girl but only the regular spanking lets the girl to do this every week while other girl address theirselves to such contemplation only when the problem occures. The spanking is very important part of the contemplation while it gives the girl a time after it to think about herself. On the other hand the girl remaining barebottomed after the spanking in the corner or facing the wall still has the possibility to ask fo additional treatment after she recollects something that could be resolved by spanking.

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In summary the regular spanking is disciplinary mostly from the side of the girl herself while the spanker is just the executor. The spanker may advice or suggest some additional spanking. The common rule is that when the girl doesn't accept an additional suggested spanking it's worthless to deliver it. The spanker may come down on more intense regular part of the spanking instead. The spanker assists the girl expressing her femininity. The basic part of the spanking is rather mild and soft intimate slapping over the spanker's lap or gentle strapping keeping the girl bent under the spanker's arm.
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