I substitute for Witol this and may be the next month not only in his spanking duties but also as a master of this blog. So it's my fault the blog is inactive for so long period of time. Witol has had an idea the girs will write down their memories and this will keep the blog alive. But the girls don't like to write and I know why.
The spanking is a negative experience still and all. The girl can accept it, she can understand she needs it and even she can experience the overall positive effect of spanking. But anyway the spanking is negative while it's efficiency is based on it's forbidding stuff.
When the girl decides to accept the training or the therapy spanking she knows what follows though the first time is shocking anyway. Pulling her panties down or taking them off is the first and most disgraceful thing before she gets the first hit. Spanking over the bare bottom is in the social mind the last measure for very or almost beyond hope naughty girl. The girl needs to give reasons for her spanking in the case somebody else except the spanker would get to know her new activity. The girl is under a delusion she can keep her spanking in secret. It's inpossible.
Her boyfrien or husband, sibling, roommate and parents get to know about her spanking in less than one or two first monthes. It's the second great shock for the girl. She has to explain why she needs her bottom to be spanked. Why exactly the spanking and not other way of therapy or training. The girl and her folks have develop an awareness of exceptional efficiency and utility of the spanking.
The third natural step is bringing the spanking from the therapist office to the girl's home. The spanking at home may seem to be less shameful and more convenient but it's so on the first sight only. The girl gets the spanking in the less private environment when compared to the therapist office. Neighbours, folks and friends get to know the girl is spanked on regular basis very shortly.
On the other hand the spanking at home has another very sufficient attribute. It transforms very shortly into the disiplinary spanking. The therapic effect of the spanking is too complicate and not acceptable explanation for most people. The words that the girl needs the spanking may signify both the therapy and the discipline. The last one is more acceptable for most people. Try to imagine at this point the self-sufficient and self-determined young woman that is forced to take her panties off barring her sacred part of body and then getting her bottom blisterred until she loses the control and begs for mercy while she has done nothing to beg for mercy.
The therapic spanking transforms into the disciplinary maintenance spanking at home less than in one month usually. The disciplinary spanking is brand new thing when compared to a therapic spanking while there are such moments as penalties during the spanking, standing in the corner, exposing the spanked bottom for other people, disciplinary book or calendar and some other moments specific for each family.
The girl is experiencing the shame and disgrace but she feels pretty well and understands the spanking is efficient as the therapic treatment anyway. She keeps this knowledge for herself while the public declaration of the spanking efficiency leads usually to the harder and more frequent spanking. The girl speaks up with her therapist and with other girls sufferring the same fate.
The hard and frequent spanking makes the girl to feel good while this spanking is really very negative experience in fact. She understand she needs the spanking and she is afraid to get more than it's necessary since she accepts penalties, corner time and empty spanking as a assurance she'll get that spanking in the future.
The described scenario is the most optimistic for the girl after she takes a decision regarding the therapy spanking. The most common is the deplorable scenario when someone in the girl's family goes at her spanking with spirit but everything fizzles out in one or two monthes. One has keep in mind that the spanking is the negative experience for the spanked girl usually no matter accepts she it or no. As a conclusion of this the girl needs an extreme effort of will to ask someone for spanking. She may ask once or twice but not always when the time for her spanking comes.
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